Earlier quoted context omitted.
The GP is talking about a situation where you are not asked for an email address. You ask for a password reset for the username @coolanonguy. The website tells you that the reset email was sent to an obscured email address. The obscured email allows you to confirm (with high likelihood) or deny (with certainty) that @coolanonguy is your friend whose email address you know.
on the systems where i had to do this for my account i usually get a message like: "an email has been sent to the address registered with this account" there is no benefit to reveal any details.
That said, it could be that the security risk outweighs that convenience.