I mostly agree, but that mentality certainly came from somewhere.

I think it's pretty well established that MySQL was the default data storage system (I say to include a broad range of systems) for web applications in the open-source world for a good chunk of the last decade.

And there's at least some reason for a default to exist. There are many applications where the author(s) don't have particular data storage/management expertise, and they'll be looking to use the "best practice" or "default" system that everyone else is using. So it sounds entirely reasonably to me that there will, again, exist a default way to store and manage data.

And it also seems natural that various systems will vie for that title, because there are a huge number of potential users there. Others will avoid that title because they want only experienced users to be involved (which I think is misguided, but it seems there are always a few).

So, I agree with you in the strict sense that there's no bestforeverythingontheweb datastore, and it's way too early to assign that title to anyone right now, but striving for broad appeal is certainly a reasonable thing to do.