Is webpack really considered such a difficult beast? I was an early adopter of TypeScript so I think I started with grunt, then gulp, then finally webpack 3, 4 and now 5.
I mean it's not my main job or anything, and I don't really enjoy configuring things but spending a handful of days reading the docs once a year or whatever is not really a problem. I have a couple of files, one for local one for production. About 50-70 lines each and considering it is compiling typescript, linting, minifying, scss, testing and so on... I find I get a lot of bang for my buck. It's not like the previous tooling was really any easier to deal with.
The production build takes about 50 seconds, and the local build takes about 3 seconds. It's honestly the least of my problems.