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The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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The final act itself is either rational, or irrational. I think most people commit suicide as an irrational sudden decision. They may have thought about it, they may have planned about it, but I think there’s a clear delineation between someone who says screw it, and kills themselves, versus someone who plans and commits the act with thoughtful deliberation. To make it easier to understand, perhaps you might look at…

Rationality seems like an irrelevant term here. Desire for suicide is obviously subjective and has no objective answer. I doubt spur of the moment suicides are very common, although the 'an hero' kid and the one that misunderstood their robinhood debt come to mind. Most suicide is going to be premeditated to a large degree. How certain do the specifics need to be for it to be considered rational? I think that's grey.…

Anytime there is talk of suicide in this community I’ve always remembered heartbreaking final words of Bill Zeller. Didn’t know him personally, but I would consider his act a rational one. I do think suicide can be irrational, which comes down to heat of the moment. I’ve had a few friends commit suicide, and it’s a horrible thing to endure, but I understand. A persons choice to in their life should be theirs completely, but I hope it’s one that is done with a rational thought out purpose. Not a spur of the moment thing.

https://gizmodo.com/the-agonizing-last-words-of-programmer-b...

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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Robert Lowell once said that if humans had access to a button that would kill us instantly and painlessly, we would all press it sooner or later. I think this explains suicide better: For most, it’s an irrational act done in the spur of the moment. What I think is more interesting is when suicide is done as a rational act with planning, and consideration for others.

"Robert Lowell once said that if humans had access to a button that would kill us instantly and painlessly, we would all press it sooner or later."

They'd push it even sooner if no one they cared about depended on them.

A lot of people stay alive simply out of a sense of responsibility towards others.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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'Poté explained that the basic mechanism is comparable to the process “used in lie-detector tests, like you see in the movies.”'

And yet polygraphs are known to be unreliable, to the point that they are generally not admissible in court. It would probably be better marketing if they don't imply that their product is comparable to an qn existing tech that is unreliable.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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The lack of empathy in the comments is scary. No wonder the situation is so bad. Let me present a scenario which might seem more relatable since it seems people understand physical pain but have no "scale" of what mental pain could be like. You have a chronic pain (maybe one of wrists is broken in a way that there is no solution). No painkillers help. Every doctor you go to doesn't have a quick-fix. People around you…

>"anything to make the pain go away" Sure, I think our rampant overdose problem and drug and alcohol over-use problem in general is a symptom of this. That's one of the reasons the war on drugs is so insidious, it punishes the people already suffering, which makes them suffer more, forcing a downward spiral that is almost impossible to get out of. All from a perceived moral failing. The US is pretty cruel to its citi…

I have not done much traveling, but Americans seem to self-medicate more?

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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As someone who has struggle with suicidal ideation his entire life, whenever the subject comes up I try to educate people by quoting author David Foster Wallace (who commited suicide) with the best explanation: “The so-called ‘psychotically depressed’ person who tries to kill herself doesn’t do so out of quote ‘hopelessness’ or any abstract conviction that life’s assets and debits do not square. And surely not becaus…

This is an amazing explanation, thank you for sharing this.

I agree, thank you.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

“All 29 people who survived their suicide attempts off San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge have said they regretted their decision as soon as they jumped.” https://ennyman.medium.com/a-lesson-from-29-golden-gate-suic... Sure most suicide attempts aren’t done this way but I think statistics like this showcase how many suicides are irrational on some level. If it was rational then you’d think they wouldn’t immediately r…

Perhaps their regret is a significant contributor to their survival though.

Or perhaps they are only saying they regret it so they aren't thrown into a mental hospital. I wonder if there was a follow up on longterm survival.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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Robert Lowell once said that if humans had access to a button that would kill us instantly and painlessly, we would all press it sooner or later. I think this explains suicide better: For most, it’s an irrational act done in the spur of the moment. What I think is more interesting is when suicide is done as a rational act with planning, and consideration for others.

One major challenge is that careful premeditation does not necessarily mean suicide is rational. There is a big crossover between people who consider suicide and people with disorders negatively impacting their cognition and decision making.

> people with disorders negatively impacting their cognition and decision making.

I think we should be really careful about how we think & talk about this.

There are a few situations (like psychotic breaks) where people fully believe delusions that, in a short time, they will reject. We can cleanly call those experiences "irrational."

On the other hand, people who experience long term depression literally experience the world differently in a way that we frequently cannot 'correct'[1]. Those people are not irrationally convinced that the world is hard to be in - they have brains for which things feel worse than for neurotypical brains. We can agree on all objectively measurable qualities of the world and their experience of that world will still be subjectively and consistently worse.

The conversations from the right-to-die movement can be useful here, as chronic pain and disease offer a lens through which to understand. We have all experienced physical pain, but we have not all experienced serious depression.

All I mean to say is that in the same way that someone with any chronic illness should have some choice in when and how they die, people who have chronic mental conditions should have the same right. We do not want to make the mistake of thinking that a person in a more complicated situation is compromised in some way - just that their world is more complex and we should take care to attend to the specifics of it.

[1] It's not clear what way of seeing the world is 'right' but I will use correct here even with its implication that neurotypical people live in the real world.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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post #54

'Poté explained that the basic mechanism is comparable to the process “used in lie-detector tests, like you see in the movies.”' And yet polygraphs are known to be unreliable, to the point that they are generally not admissible in court. It would probably be better marketing if they don't imply that their product is comparable to an qn existing tech that is unreliable.

Better marketting can and probably should include honest implications of a product's limitations.

Re: The undiscovered country: Can suicide be predicted?

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As someone who has struggle with suicidal ideation his entire life, whenever the subject comes up I try to educate people by quoting author David Foster Wallace (who commited suicide) with the best explanation: “The so-called ‘psychotically depressed’ person who tries to kill herself doesn’t do so out of quote ‘hopelessness’ or any abstract conviction that life’s assets and debits do not square. And surely not becaus…

One flaw with the analogy is that a pretty significant portion of suicides (successful or attempts) are impulsive. Many people who attempt it have literally no idea they will when they wake up that morning.

A 2001 University of Houston study of survivors of near lethal attempts showed that 70% of them had only decided to do it an hour or less before the attempt, and 24 percent had only spent 5 minutes before the attempt.

If when attempting it, they discover that their chosen method won't work for some reason, many will just give up on killing themselves rather than looking for an alternative measure.

This has been reliably seen many times. If a change is made such that one suicide method becomes unfeasible, the overall attempt rate drops. If one were committed to offing oneself it is almost impossible to stop them, as there are countless ways to do it. But the statistics are very clear that if some method is removed, alternatives are not always used.

The British had an issue with people killing themselves with oven fumes, back when the ovens used coal gas which created a lot of carbon monoxide, with this accounting for about 50% of suicide deaths. When things were changed to use natural gas where this approach does not work, suicides dropped by 30%. Obviously while that means a portion ending up using some other method, many others simply never killed themselves.

Of 515 people prevented by police from jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge between 1937 and 1971, by the end of the 70s only 6% of them had committed suicide by other means.

Weirdly even some of the non-impulsive cases where people had planned an attempt for days or weeks just give up if their plan is foiled, rather than coming up with some alternative method.

Now obviously not everybody is like this. Some people will continue to try over and over until they succeed. But the numbers suggest that those are very much a minority.

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