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George Lakoff's Metaphors We Live By is one of my favorite books. It's a great reminder about how powerful words can be at subliminally guiding our thoughts. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphors_We_Live_By Since the predominant implicit metaphor behind "argument" is battle/war/conflict, we intuit that there must be a "winner" and that we must "defeat" the "opponent" and other nasty implications. Because of this I…
I've read the book and I find the first half great. It demonstrates the ubiquity of metaphor in language. But its reach seriously exceeds its grasp. The book makes all kinds of bizarre claims. For example: > the predominant implicit metaphor behind "argument" is battle/war/conflict, we intuit that there must be a "winner" and that we must "defeat" the "opponent" and other nasty implications The reason we use war as a…
I took away from the book the (I think) important point that if you have different goals (than fight) but use the word "argument", many people can buy into the (wrong) metaphor and you are now cross purposes.