I think there is a cottage industry around telling people that they're using the interactive shell wrong. This all started with "useless use of cat", which people still bitch about on Reddit and Twitter on a regular basis, and so whenever someone finds something a little weird about UNIX, they are quick to call a person asking a question about it dumb. I think it might be stockholm syndrome, or a symptom of one's greatest achievement in life thusfar being reading the man page for find. Or maybe they genuinely think they're helping. I dunno.
Ultimately, it's a cascading failure of bad design. Good design is that find and xargs each do one thing and do it well. Find can output files to anything! Xargs can xargify input from anything! Bad design is that find uses \n as the output record separator and that xargs uses \n as the input record separator, but \n can appear in filenames! This design can never work and will always lead to difficult-to-debug problems. So instead of fixing it, we blame the user for not knowing "oh, well find has xargs built in. sort of. a lot of the features are there. not all of them. but some. so never use find | args, smile." or "well, we designed the unix shell to be easy to use... but there is this corner case that we knew about and could have protected you from, but we chose not to, so 1% of the time you'll rm -rf / with your xargs command, UNLESS YOU REMEMBER THIS ONE WEIRD TRICK which is to use -0 to use an out-of-band symbol to separate records which we could have just made happen by default but chose not to, just to mess you up!"
I appreciate the efforts of people that are re-imagining the interactive shell, like PowerShell. I am not very productive with PowerShell (to get a listing of files in your directory, just type "Could-We-Make-It-Even-More-Verbose -PerhapsInTheNextVersionWeWill!") but it's a good prototype of a good shell. I have personally stepped on enough UNIX landmines to be generally OK with the compromises, or more typically don't write shell scripts for anything that will be run more than twice. It's bad though, and I don't think the users are to blame.