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Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Travel - Go somewhere that makes zero sense. It will make sense when you get there and when you leave. Athletics - Pick something that is so far out of your reach that it doesn't make sense why you would do it. For example, I just signed up for a double-marathon without having ever done a marathon first.

That's kind of scary. How would I know that I'm not setting myself up for failure by putting up an impossible goal like that?

Have you considered that doing something scary might be a good thing?

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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This sounds really stupid on its face, but try taking Vitamin D. While it certainly won't fix any of these problems, I found it helped my mood a bit and generally made me feel better, health-wise. And worst-case scenario, it does nothing and you're out $10.

Hmmm... you've just reminded me that I ought to be drinking more milk...

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

That's kind of scary. How would I know that I'm not setting myself up for failure by putting up an impossible goal like that?

Have you considered that doing something scary might be a good thing?

Yes, but I've also considered that I might be a total wimp. Ugh.

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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It doesn't really matter what you choose, it's more important to simply get going on something. As for "finding yourself" I think being social and doing something outside your usual norms are what point you back to who you are the fastest.

> I'd ride my bike across the continent from Vancouver to Halifax (I don't own a bicycle and haven't ridden one in years)

I can recommend a long bike trip. I rode from Canada to Mexico between September and November 2010. I've been a 'cyclist' most of my life, but don't ride all that far nor often. Take it slowly and build up the miles gradually. I had never done more than a two day bike-camping trip, and met several people with zero bicycle touring and negligible general cycling experience.

I would buy a good selection of maps and, if it's feasible in the areas to be crossed, an Internet-connected device. Couch surfing would be ideal, since it keeps costs down and provides precious social interaction. Canadian camp sites are expensive.

Also, bring an iPod stocked with audio books, courses, or something else to engage your brain (I found a "This American Life" collection invaluable). Music is nice, but when you're grinding up the tenth hill of the day at 3mph, it's nice to let your legs do the work while your brain focuses on what you're listening to.

If you are genuinely interested in this and have no idea where to start, let me know. I think you could get all your touring needs together for $2,000 or less.

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Relax. After a month you'll be in a much better place to evaluate. You should focus solely in that month on doing little things you've been meaning to do. eg. Spending more time with friends / family. Going to see that exhibit you've been meaning to. Watching a movie you just haven't had time for.

I took time and founded a startup but it wasn't until a week ago (9 months from the start that I really found the right niche)

It sounds like your in Vancouver, I am as well let me know if you want to grab a coffee and have a more in depth discussion. Also, have you spoken to your doctor about SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder)? Around Feb/March of every year is when I want to make drastic changes to my life, I've sort of chalked it up to SAD and have made a point to get outside during the sunshine more often.

The ideas that you think are crazy are probably whats going to snap you out of your funk. Think of doing something crazy as making yourself available for new ideas, opportunity and inspiration. I can tell you that if you bike from Vancouver to Halifax you're probably going to meet some very cool people doing interesting things. Those interactions will probably drive your next idea. It will flood your head with experiences and environment that few other people have. I just wouldn't start any big new projects until you've given yourself a month to evaluate in a de-stressed environment.

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Pick up a new platform... Java tends to drain, come back ready to learn something new.

And if you aren't, get some more sun, by your comments, your body is probably wanting a shift into earlier hours? Get up early and hear the birds chirping without having to rush into an office. I think the same thing happened to me from 28-ish to 31-ish. I went back to school and finally entered the game industry and focused on less, just being good at that. Is there a field you want to get into that you haven't really tried? Just do it, start now in small goals.

Also, set some lower goals for yourself in smaller tasks and get them done quickly. Sometimes you are tied to bigger projects that make the rush of accomplishment numbed from the pain of larger projects if they are longer and less driven by smaller accomplishments/releases. Control some of these on your own.

Also, play some Red Dead Redemption or your video game of choice. They can really help reduce stress and provide escapes to clear your head after a day of work or when you need to shift to relax.

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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Do you have a wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend? Are you tied down to anything? Do you have money to travel? I'm going to assume you're a single male between the age of 25 and 35. The right ideas will slowly come to you, but getting some perspective is essential and that's not going to come from sitting in your apartment staring at your laptop. The two things I suggest are: * Exercise. Mens sana in corpore sano. Lift…

Do you have a wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend? Are you tied down to anything? Do you have money to travel? I'm going to assume you're a single male between the age of 25 and 35. Correct on all counts -- nothing tying me down, and my rainy day fund can keep me fed, clothed, and sheltered for years. I actually get a decent amount of exercise -- minimum 40 minutes per day, I'd estimate. It certainly has plenty of bene…

I was depressive and was retrenched in 2009 due to the company meeting bank demands. I ended up spending my retrenchment money travelling - I'm from Australia, and I always wanted to travel coast-to-coast across the US. I spent three months doing it, and had a total about about three crappy days. Every other day was awesome, just travelling at my own speed and exploring another country.

I was significantly reinvigorated, and I'm very much the 'sit at the computer' type of person. So yeah, I recommend travel.

Also because when else are you going to get the chance to spend some serious time travelling?

Re: Ask HN: Burned out. How can I make the most of a sabbatical leave?

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I think you're already on the right way with classical music, long walks, reading books, etc. (except for the Internet addiction). I guess if you keep on doing things you like you will recover. All the best to you.

Definitely working on that Internet addiction. HN is so much tougher to give up than other sites though!

One side-benefit of the absurd working hours I put in over the years was that it took away all my time and broke my obsessive gaming habit. I suffer withdrawal symptoms from time to time when I see other people having a nice time at their battlestations, but I like to think I've learned some self-control.

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