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I don't have real knowledge of gravity, but I can speculate a bit. First, I don't think the blackbox argument necessarily makes sense. If the black box contains a massive point particle, and this particle moves from the left side of the box to the right, then the gravitational properties certainly change. For example, if there is a particle on top of the box, it will initially be pulled to the left, and subsequently…
If the black box is freely floating (which is what I was thinking of), then a particle within it can move to one side only if something else in it moves the other direction. But on further thought, I wouldn't be surprised if some changes in the internals of the box could produce gravitational waves, so maybe my intuition for this is wrong. Although if I further clarify that the box isn't supposed to be emitting energ…
Are gravity waves similarly observer-reference-frame-dependent? I.e. the gravitation of a given object is not intrinsic but rather dependent on the energy difference between the object and a given observer’s frame?