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My wife was born and raised in China. I love her dearly, but my anecdata in large part concurs with yours. I should mention she's certainly conflicted and aware of some inconsistencies in a good number of her beliefs, even if she generally defends them or changes the topic when they come up. Though I'm not sure I agree with your suggested course of action.
I also have no prejudice towards Chinese people, but I do feel that it is time for Americans to unite, realize that their is still hatred in the world (much of which is cultural), and toughen back up.