What's frustrating here is the attitude that if you agree with (or work with) someone on some particular topic, then you are necessarily endorsing that person's views on EVERY topic. In other words, you should never associate with someone unless you agree with 100% of their views. If we brought this attitude into our personal lives, it would make our interactions with family members and colleagues impossible! I disag…
There is s guy I consider a friend who couldn't be more opposite than I am. In a lot of ways he is a stereotypical Trump #MAGA guy and I'm definitely on the other end of the spectrum. He's retired ex-military, mid western, and my family is more stereotypical one of the NPR listening "cultural elites".
But, on the issues that would make me separate myself from him - if he were always making racist statements - he's definitely not that. He is White, married to a deaf Vietnamese lady who he loves dearly. Attends a predominately Black church and would give anyone the shirt off of his back.