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Not in SF, where the median rent is now $4,225/month, or $50,700/year. Realistically, you can't even expect to take home $50,700 on a gross income of $75k. http://blog.sfgate.com/ontheblock/2015/06/02/san-franciscos-...
Is it actually that bad? SF rents are certainly not low, but if you check Craigslist/PadMapper, it would seem difficult to pay $4k, let alone that being the median.
Now if you are married with kids: 1. Hospital co-pays, premiums, co-insurance, $45 drug co-pays, everything comes to about $5k/yr if you are just moderately sick. 2. You cant live with roommates, you actually need your own home. Can you imagine raising a family with roommates? 3. You def need a car, possibly two.
Forget about saving up for a house, most will be $1m+
Some people will say -- "oh, you are married, now you have two incomes" -- sure, until you have kids. Then most of your second income goes to child-care, and in the early years, you will pay MORE for childcare than you earn!