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"Which button do I press" comes up every time; other times it's focus or zoom level that's out. On the iPhone, ~everyone on the planet instinctively knows how to do it.
I usually just tell people. > "Which button do I press" The Big One. > focus It's automatic. (If I'm handing a stranger my camera.) > zoom level This is maybe the hardest one, I guess, … but I do think most people have seen enough TV cop dramas to instinctively know. Or, they can just take the photo at the zoom I've handed them, and it won't be a big deal. Walking forward a few steps is also like zooming.
Sometimes you get a stranger looking through a viewfinder and crouching and you know you've got yourself another hobbyist (or pro) as well :) Those compositions usually are better too!