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You've got two variables you can control. Birthrate and deathrate. Someone, or something, will ultimately be making decisions. Why not a government, or government analog? What about that bothers you? What alternatives do you suggest? Different mechanisms? Different institutions? Raising standards of livings has always required raising material resource consumption.
Its an interesting question to ponder if the reduced birth rate by increasing quality of life, education levels and general health will offset the raised material resource consumption by that move. In the end I think the individuals themselves will be the ones making the decision to have fewer kids. I don't have a source for this, but I seem to remember that immigrants to more developed nations have fewer children af…
These seem to reflect strong underlying tendencies of complex evolving systems. In particular that higher levels of organisation and complexity very powerfully tied to greater rates of energy and resource use, overall if not individually.
If humans manage to defeat this tendency it would be a singular exception.