Meh, indeed :) Thank you for your response, it's a fair question and critique.
It'd be rather challenging to write guidance on which technology to use to build an application. Thorough guidance would need to consider far too much. You wouldn't have a tome, you'd have an anthology. You'd have to consider what is being built and by whom at the very least.
It becomes "self-evident" when you have enough knowledge and experience to make the selection and you successfully de-bias yourself from the "shiny" or the "common" (Which React was and is now respectively).
So, what would I recommend? Aside from the pat, "it depends" answer, I would recommend starting with a server-rendering based framework. I prefer Rails, personally, because Ruby works well for me and my team, but many others would do just fine.
Then, fight all superfluous interactivity for interactivity's sake in your applications. Stick to server rendering and form submissions until you need something more elaborate. Then, look for something you can use to augment behavior. I use Turbo/Stimulus, with which we are able to do a lot with very little. Others like HTMX. If one really needed the interactivity and declarative nature of something like React, then the list that the author mentioned would be good to explore. Most folks don't, and I think that's the main point that's lost on many.
Oh, and if you're building Google Maps, Miro, Linear or the like then disregard the above suggestions, they don't apply. Etc. (again, it depends)
As an aside, I was historically a huge React fan. I used it for quite a while. I'm still a fan of the declarative nature and one-way data flow. It's super powerful stuff. We actually get something somewhat similar with Turbo and the much more sophisticated Phoenix LiveView (can't recommend this one personally, haven't used it in anger). Procedural-based UI code for complex, highly interactive applications is a fool's errand in my opinion. For the basics though? Totally fine.