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But how does his family deal with him being essentially uncontactable for huge swaths of time for multiple days? Did I ever say everyone has to conform to my worldview? He said his preference. I asked a question about his use case. I stated my preference. That's it
Not the OP but I’m surprised you are surprised this much. In our 2-person family there are times where me and my wife spend an entire evening, sometimes even a full day or two independently doing whatever hobbies we have. We both appreciate the ability to hyper-focus when we like. It’s very easy to “deal with” too: you just continue your life until the other one becomes available. What is so wrong about it? You are n…
But also I guess I assumed a "fam" is more than just a spouse. Sure if it's only one other person you live with, then you're probably not needed any time. Idk I'd still rather watch a movie together, but that's just me