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Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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A democratically elected government. Look, there is no such thing as a "natural market" that can keep the power of the actors in it in check. The internet was the closest thing to a perfect market that has ever existed and all it has produced is overpowered monopoly after overpowered monopoly. If we want a free society, we don't get that by handing power over to the markets. We get that by building the most responsiv…

In the US, "People, elected and held accountable by citizenry at large" found that banks were "too big to fail." They did not restrain "the power of the actors in [the market] in check." What makes you think it'll be different this time?

Plenty of people will argue that the US is not a great example of a functioning democracy where government is held accountable by the citizenry at large.

So your example is valid but maybe not for the point you're trying to make?

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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IMO, if your market share is bigger than ${some number}, you shouldn't be able to deny service without a documented reason, it should have some sort of time-to-live (i.e 1 year), and there should be an appeals process. In a functioning marketplace, companies would be naturally incentivized to care about customers but that stops working in uncompetitive industries (which currently describes most of the economy).

How is internet dating an uncompetitive industry? There are dozens of competitors. The biggest (Tinder) has barely 30% marketshare.

Match Group (owner of tinder) basically has a monopoly in combination with their other apps. Even Facebook tried to challenge them and failed.

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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Well not granting monopolies is a start, but governments grant monopolies all the time in the form of patents, copyright and trademarks. Proving a monopoly exists or are forming could be another way to do so, but so far they have recently made lackluster arguments in Courts of Law on that front. If you then prove a monopoly, can you also then prove that it’s activities are harmful to the people in the marketplace by…

> not granting monopolies is a start Monopolies are generally not granted, except in exceptional circumstances. The US government didn't grant Microsoft a monopoly in PC operating systems. > Proving a monopoly exists or are forming could be another way to do so, but so far they have recently made lackluster arguments in Courts of Law on that front. What are you referring to?

Yes, yes they do. I listed three examples of what a government granted monopoly looks like. Copyright, trademark and patents don’t exist naturally, and they’re unenforceable without the Rule of Law.

> What are you referring to?

Most recently (that I can think of): the suit the Feds filed against Facebook that was tossed out of court.

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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Yes, this. If you’re trying to find a partner on a platform where matches are determined solely by physical attraction, you’re gonna have a hard time if you’re not physically attractive. Know what Tinder is, and be self-aware enough to know if it’s not for you.

The attractive types will also have it difficult. The matches will likely be attractive physically, but that hardly guarantees a true match. I know lots of attractive people that struggle to find a partner (and instead move from one one night stand to another). I think at some point it must get pretty depressing and toxic.

That’s it’s whole own thing; people who are incredibly attractive can move on really quick because they know they can get something else. Then they hit their 30s and that all dries up, and they don’t know how to have a real relationship that lasts longer than a few months.

Obviously not everyone who is hot is this way, but it’s one of the “types” you’ll find if you date around a lot.

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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What would it mean to break up Tinder? How do you partition a company that only has one product?

Not sure what you mean by this, but Tinder's parent company controls several well known dating services (OkCupid, Meetic, Twoo and many more)

Ah, fair enough. I was thinking OP meant Tinder specifically, but at the very least OkCupid could be split out.

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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Why did this person set up a new tinder account? "That is something that never happened to me before" How if you're a first time user? Sounds like they already had a tinder account at some point. This is clickbait at best...

Yup, I wonder if tinder noticed multiple accounts associated with the facebook/phone # he provided. I'd suspect they would proactively prevent you from creating a new account, but I've never used the service so perhaps you put in your facebook after the account is created or something, and that is when they got the multiple account signal? Or if he has a completely different name associated with his facebook account.

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What you don't seem to realize here is that various app stores, etc almost never sell you any content. They sell you a temporary revokable right to access content. It's like a movie theater ticket, with an added bonus of ushers being paranoid assholes that could kick you out any moment without a reason. You don't own the movie, you can just watch it, if you're lucky. If you think that service isn't worth the price -…

Really? When I buy a steam game, the big green button says “purchase”, not “receive a temporarily revocable right to access”. It’s the digital age. My digital items are my possessions. This dichotomy in your head between the “real” and the “digital” doesn’t exist for the younger generation. There are few alternatives to these large tech companies. As I’ve gotten older I’ve wisened up and I buy DRM-free digital goods…

"It’s the digital age. My digital items are my possessions. This dichotomy in your head between the “real” and the “digital” doesn’t exist for the younger generation."

That's a weird way to put it. It may not exist "for" someone, but as you seem to acknowledge, it exists "for" numerous corporations and legal systems which even those someones are subject to. I thought this was the primary purpose of NFTs. An NFT physically cannot be revoked without the permission (coerced or otherwise) of the holder, or a fundamental problem in encryption.

And just so other people don't get confused by this pretty misleading hyperbole:

" The Content and Services are licensed, not sold. Your license confers no title or ownership in the Content and Services. "

source: https://store.steampowered.com/subscriber_agreement/

No judge is going to weigh what the "buy" button omits over what the EULA actually states. If anyone has an example of a digital content service with an EULA that DOESN'T contain this kind of verbiage I would be fascinated to see it.

Re: Tinder just permabanned me or the problem with big tech

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What would it mean to break up Tinder? How do you partition a company that only has one product?

Partition it geographically. If they want to compete in certain cities/regions/countries where the user base exceeds a certain number, they must spin off subsidiaries for that area. I can't imagine people looking for a date on the other end of the country outside of very specific circumstances.

Geographic partition is what we did to Bell, and that really doesn't seem to have helped much. If the only way to choose a competitor is to move, there's still really no competition. No one spent thousands of dollars moving across the country because the telephone company there was better.

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Instead of regulation, I'd like to see the government offer a free service. A digital commons. In this case the public library version of Tinder, with strict rules of who can be banned and where everyone is treated equally.

You want the government to be that involved in pair-selection in the population??? I am disturbed. Eugenics aside: you know that a direct result of this is that border services, local police, etc will have access to a database of dick pics, don't you?

If they used and published a fair algorithm for matching, they wouldn't really be involved in the matching they would just be providing a venue. Similar to a city providing public space for people to meet, like a fair.

Do you think the FBI, NSA, etc doesn't already have access to photos posted on dating sites in the US?

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They don’t even have to be doing that on purpose, if one just optimizes the revenue per user metric he’s effectively doing the same thing even if not on purpose.

It's ever better if you use some type of AI for this, then no one "knows" that are actually doing that.

"I didn't do it on purpose" and "no one knew what we are actually doing". I gonna call it the "data scientist's switchblade...
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