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The fix is for the government to make it a service. Right now, the government is punting responsibility to private actors who do not have the legal tools to operate an identity service. The government already operates an identity service via passports. The only reason they do not have an electronic identity service yet is because it is beneficial for them to be able to blame private actors when things go wrong.
But at a fundamental level, why do Discord and Clubhouse need to verify my identity? I don't think the question GP is asking is whether or not Stripe is a good way to confirm someone's real-life identity, or whether it would be better for the government to do it. I think what they're asking why we're doing identity verification for chat applications. Is this a good direction overall for the Internet to be moving in?…
Discord are doing it for verifying bot ownership, because bots can do a lot of damage if they're just free to sign up to Discord and start "talking" to people. A good way of omitting bad bots from the network is by verifying and tying the bot to the (verified) identity of a real person.
I run a server with 1,200 people on it - I've never needed to verify my identity. You don't need to verify your identity for using Discord.