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I don't think you're understanding. The point is that 20 people in a row will take advantage of your buffer to slow you down again and again and again, which makes you get to your destination later... because they're being selfish to get somewhere faster, and you're not so you get to where you're going slower . We're not talking about where they're changing lanes to take the next exit. We're talking about where your…
You mean 20 people who were trying to merge finally get to merge because someone came past who wasn't a massive asshole?
Screwed person: WTF?
People doing the screwing: ‘oh thank god’
The really irritating part - society saying ‘oh, that’s not happening you should continue to be screwed’