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Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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If calves aren’t cows then children aren’t humans.

No, you're thinking of the term "cattle". Calves are indeed cattle. But "cow" has a specific definition - it refers to fully-grown female cattle. And the male form is "bull".

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Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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Is that GPT5? Reddit users are freaking out about losing 4o and AFAICT it's because 5 doesn't stroke their ego as hard as 4o. I feel there are roughly two classes of heavy LLM users - one who use it like a tool, and the other like a therapist. The latter may be a bigger money maker for many LLM companies so I worry GPT5 will be seen as a mistake to them, despite being better for research/agent work.

My very brief interaction with GPT5 is that it's just weird. "Sure, I'll help you stop flirting with OOMs" "Thought for 27s Yep-..." (this comes out a lot) "If you still graze OOM at load" "how far you can push --max-model-len without more OOM drama" - all this in a prolonged discussion about CUDA and various llm runners. I've added special user instructions to avoid flowery language, but it gets ignored. EDIT: it al…

Turn off the setting that lets it reference chat history; it's under Personalization.

Also take a peek at what's in Memories (which is separate from the above); consider cleaning it up or disabling entirely.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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ChatGPT opened with a "Nope" the other day. I'm so proud of it. https://chatgpt.com/share/6896258f-2cac-800c-b235-c433648bf4...

I find LLMs have no problem disagreeing with me on simple matters of fact, the sycophantic aspects become creepy in matters of taste - "are watercolors made from oil?" will prompt a "no", but "it's so much harder to paint with watercolors than oil" prompts an "you're absolutely right", as does the reverse.

Not proud to admit that I got into a knockout shouting match with ChatGPT regarding its take on push vs pull based metrics systems.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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I've spent a lot of time trying to get LLM to generate things in a specific way, the biggest take away I have is, if you tell it "don't do xyz" it will always have in the back of its mind "do xyz" and any chance it gets it will take to "do xyz" When working on art projects, my trick is to specifically give all feedback constructively, carefully avoiding framing things in terms of the inverse or parts to remove.

Example-based prompting is a good way to get specific behaviors. Write a system prompt that describes the behavior you want, write a round or two of assistant/user interaction, and then feed it all to the LLM. Now in its context it has already produced output of the type you want, so when you give it your real prompt, it will be very likely to continue producing the same sort of output.

This is true, but I still avoid using examples. Any example biases the output to an unacceptable degree even in best LLMS like Gemini Pro 2.5 or Claude Opus. If I write "try to do X, for example you can do A, B, or C" LLM will do A, B, or C great majority of the time (let's say 75% of the time). This severely reduces the creativity of the LLM. For programming, this is a big problem because if you write "use Python's native types like dict, list, or tuple etc" there will be an unreasonable bias towards these three types as opposed to e.g. set, which will make some code objectively worse.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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> Versus, if it just gave a curt and unfriendly answer, most people (esp. Americans) I don’t see this as an American thing. It’s an extension of the current Product Management trend to give software quirky and friendly personality. You can see the trend in more than LLM output. It’s in their desktop app that has “Good Morning” and other prominent greetings. Claude Code has quirky status output like “Bamboozling” and…

I worked in an org with offices in America, India, Europe, and Israel, and it was not uncommon for the American employees to be put off by the directness of the foreign employees. It was often interpreted as rudeness, to the surprise of the speaker. This happened to the Israel employees more than the India or Europe employees, at least in part because the India/Europe employees usually tried to adapt to the behavior…

As someone with Israeli family ... they report that Americans are not the only ones who react to them like this.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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If you get a massage from massage machine is it also a mirage? If you use a vibrator is it also a mirage? Why it suddenly becomes an unhealthy mirage if you need words to tickle yourself?

A vibrator still works as intended if you believe it doesn't love you. GPT-4o stops working as intended if you believe it doesn't love you. The latter relies on an illusion, the former doesn't. (More precisely, a vibrator still relies on an illusion in the evolutionary sense: it doesn't create offspring, so over time phenotypes who like vibrators get replaced by those who don't.)

That's simply not true. Vibrators don't really work that well if you somehow suppress the fantasies during use. Same way that GPT-4o works better if you fantasize briefly that it might love you when it says what it does. Almost all people who use it in this manner are fully aware of its limitations. While they are phrasing it as "I lost my love" their complaints are really of the kind of "my toy broke". And they find similar mitigation strategies for the problem, finding another toy, giving each other tips on how to use what's available.

As for the evolutionary perspective, evolution is not that simple. Gay people typically have way less offspring than vibrator users and somehow they are still around and plentiful.

Brains are messy hodgepodge of various subsystems. Clever primates found multitude of way how to mess with them to make life more bearable. So far the species continuous regardless.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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I was a bit unfair then. That sounds like someone with good intent tried to put something together to help colleagues. And it's definitely not the only time I heard of negative prompting being a recommended approach.

> And it's definitely not the only time I heard of negative prompting being a recommended approach. I’m very willing to admit to being wrong, just curious if in those other cases it actually worked or not?

I never saw any formal analysis, just a few anecdotal blog posts. Your colleagues might have seen the same kind of thing and taken it at face value. It might even be good advice for some models and tasks - whole topic moves so fast!

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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My very brief interaction with GPT5 is that it's just weird. "Sure, I'll help you stop flirting with OOMs" "Thought for 27s Yep-..." (this comes out a lot) "If you still graze OOM at load" "how far you can push --max-model-len without more OOM drama" - all this in a prolonged discussion about CUDA and various llm runners. I've added special user instructions to avoid flowery language, but it gets ignored. EDIT: it al…

Turn off the setting that lets it reference chat history; it's under Personalization. Also take a peek at what's in Memories (which is separate from the above); consider cleaning it up or disabling entirely.

Oh, I went through that. o3 had the same memories and was always to the point.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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Turn off the setting that lets it reference chat history; it's under Personalization. Also take a peek at what's in Memories (which is separate from the above); consider cleaning it up or disabling entirely.

Oh, I went through that. o3 had the same memories and was always to the point.

Yes, but don't miss what I said about the other setting. You can't see what it's using from past conversations, and if you had one or two flippant conversations with it at some point, it can decide to start speaking that way.

Re: Claude says “You're absolutely right!” about everything

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I'm pretty sure they want it kissing people's asses because it makes users feel good and therefore more likely to use the LLM more. Versus, if it just gave a curt and unfriendly answer, most people (esp. Americans) wouldn't like to use it as much. Just a hypothesis.

But it really erodes trust. First couple of times I felt that it indeed confirmed what I though, then I became suspicious and I experimented with presenting my (clearly worse) take on things, it still said I was absolutely right, and now I just don't trust it anymore. As people here are saying, you quickly learn to not ask leading questions, just assume that its first take is pretty optimal and perhaps present it wit…

I lie and present my ideas as coming from colleagues.
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