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You don’t see any conflicts between this: > it turns out I’d prefer to spend most of my time at the computer in common spaces; at the dinner table, on the couch And this? > I’m present and available for my family
The conflicts arise when all you do is work. Every second of every day does not need to be spent staring at your children and still be a good parent. I often sit with my kids and get a little work done on the couch while they're entertaining themselves. I can engage where appropriate, and of course I don't spend my entire life working. This flexibility allows me time to walk them to school, pick them up from school,…
When I’m “at work” in my home office. I’m not to be disturbed. When I’m “off work” my computer is shut down until the next day and I get on with the rest of my life - which doesn’t involve computers.
That sets strict expectations from everyone in my home.