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Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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I think the risk of sexual abuse is the best argument for homeschooling, especially versus public schools.

“An estimated 10% of K–12 students will experience sexual misconduct by a school employee by the time they graduate from high school.”

https://nij.ojp.gov/library/publications/case-study-k-12-sch...

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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I think you're right to start by saying this isn't universal worldwide, or even within Britain. You describe hell. But I don't believe that your experience is dominant or even that common in the UK. Which generation are you from?

I'm 34, grew up in London, went to state primary school and private secondary school. dijit's account of schooling ressonates strongly with me.

40's, male, had a horrible experience at state secondary school in semi-rural Scotland. I now have young kids in primary, and I can see how shit the education aspect in particular is - my kids constantly complain about how boring it is, and one finds everything ridiculously easy. For example, he's been doing addition and subtraction up to ten at school for 3 years!?

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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I think a better question is: How did the median get so much better over 150 years, and why can't it keep getting better? 150 years ago, the average person was illiterate, poorer (in all senses of the word) and less connected to the world around them. Over a 100 year old grind, schooling fixed all that. Why can't it keep going? So the outlier, super special "phenom" today is the median of tomorrow.

>Why can't it keep going? Because an educated populace is harder for the ultrarich to control and abuse, because an educated populace with free time can revolt against those in power, and because as a consequence of those two things ultrarich conservatives have consolidated ownership of media and used it to defund education and convince the population that funding education is bad.

I agree with this and that's why I think social media, mass media and so on exist.

However I'm curious as to why you attribute or limit this to 'conservatives' only. Is this really something exclusive or characteristic of the conservative side? At least where I am from it's the left that's more interventionist in regards to education rather than the right, that interventionism being used to make education more rigid and controlled by a biased government.

And the media is definitely not consolidated, you've got clearly two sides competing at a pretty equal level.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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I think you're right to start by saying this isn't universal worldwide, or even within Britain. You describe hell. But I don't believe that your experience is dominant or even that common in the UK. Which generation are you from?

I’m 35 now, so, millennial; for additional context I was brought up in a city called Coventry which is a city that was in decline during that period. (just like most of the north of the UK following Thatcher’s closing of the mines). As a consequence of this experience, though, I saw that I wasn’t exactly entirely unique either, as there were other children treated as I was and we sought each other out. So I know that…

Yeah, Coventry is rough. This is a good anecdotal overview for anyone interested: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Watch-My-Back-Geoff-Thompson-ebook/...

Having said that, your experiences weren't a million miles from mine in the 80's in the crap end of Hampshire. Most of the violence there though was from other pupils, rather than teachers.

However, speaking to my daughter schools these days do tend to be kinder, gentler places than when I grew up. Fights seem to happen never rather than on a daily basis.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

#435
I loved public school (class of 99). I still miss the style of learning. Can you imagine going deep on a topic for 50 minutes then switching? AP classes got double periods. I found it so refreshing and I learned a ton.

Eg, science, math, study hall, lunch, Spanish, History, Art, English… in a single day?

I loved it. What worked for me was studying for tests — and the harder the classes you took, the less homework there was (or it wasn’t required). I had a great history teacher, occasionally good math & English teachers, a great art teacher, and mediocre science teachers. The science TEXTBOOKS were fabulous — you could just read through those things and become a genius.

No more textbooks these days — it’s all some pdf segment to download. Bummer for my kids.

These days, there are way fewer tests, so my kids always freak when they have tests. I thought tests were great! Just one focused period to perform and then move on. Homework and projects were a big problem for me, because I could never start early enough — it was always a last minute dash. Maybe that trained me to produce fast output, though.

Kids were sometimes awful, but there was no way I was going to be popular so I just did my nerd thing. There were enough of us.

They had a great drama program which I loved — I did every play and musical I could. And they even had a speech and debate club — so I competed at “extemporaneous” speech—when I went to state competitions, they got the students all together to clap me out like they’d do for the football team. That was unnecessary and funny for the nerd.

My kids don’t get these kinds of opportunities, I fear. I was pretty lucky.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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OK I guess I’m going to go against the deluge of comments here; And give an appreciable reason instead of denigrating those who might choose this. The context, though, I am British. I grew up in Britain. I went to British school. I can’t speak universally about my experience, (even within all of Britain), because it’s my experience which is in one small area of the country. However, school, for me, was by far the sin…

This does prepare you to life though. More likely than not you will go to office. You will find yourselves with bullies, and again you can become a victim. Rather than feeling sorry about yourself, school prepares you to fight with bullies, to find inmates, to find friends. I think you could have not understand the life lessons.

You will also enter other communities, where again, you will find bullies.

God how I hate idea of "safe spaces".

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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Well, one reason is that your assumption that they are all or mostly inferior is wrong.

Suppose you have a kid that you have reason to believe is at the 90th percentile. This isn't uncommon; it's one in ten kids. The average kid at the average school is at the 50th percentile. Moreover, the speed of the class isn't even the speed of the average kid because then the 40th and 20th percentile kids would get left behind. To get out of this you'd need a school with a gifted program and enough 90th percentile…

the 90th percentile of what?

sport?

english lit?

maths?

music?

socialising?

being the mother hen?

being a jock?

teaching everyone else things in the library?

class clown?

being the wacky one?

skateboarding?

acting?

rebelling?

looking after someone who has just been picked on by all the other kids?

schools introduce us to a wide range of children who are representative of the people we’re going to have to deal with later on in life.

not saying there aren’t alternatives.

but specialising for only the 90th percentile of one thing seems like a way to isolate someone later in life because they may not have learned how to deal with people who aren’t in the 90th percentile of that one thing.

and i say that as someone who hated my time at school and has struggled with the repercussions in later life.

i still learned a lot near the classroom tho.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

#438
I turned out OK in public school, but I was held back at different points, particularly in math, because I (and a few others) were too far ahead of the other kids. We literally had to repeat an entire year of content at one point. Kudos to the teachers who enabled & fostered that, but shame on the school system for not continuing to support. I'm pretty sure one of my classmates gave up on academics at that moment (he never really excelled again like he used to).

I'd like my kids to be free to follow their curiosities. It's definitely work to homeschool but for us, it may be worth it.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

#439

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I think a better question is: How did the median get so much better over 150 years, and why can't it keep getting better? 150 years ago, the average person was illiterate, poorer (in all senses of the word) and less connected to the world around them. Over a 100 year old grind, schooling fixed all that. Why can't it keep going? So the outlier, super special "phenom" today is the median of tomorrow.

>Why can't it keep going? Because an educated populace is harder for the ultrarich to control and abuse, because an educated populace with free time can revolt against those in power, and because as a consequence of those two things ultrarich conservatives have consolidated ownership of media and used it to defund education and convince the population that funding education is bad.

You're delusional. Revolt always came from people with an empty stomach, not from the comfortable leisure class.

Plus, an "educated" populace is as easy or maybe even easier to control, it's willpower against all odds that characterizes the truly ungovernable.

Re: Why is homeschooling becoming fashionable?

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Over a 100 year old grind, schooling fixed all that. Why can't it keep going? Schooling didn’t fix all that. There have been major advances throughout society in every area: medicine, nutrition, sanitation, manufacturing, electricity, refrigeration, printing, computing, telecommunications… the list goes on and on and on. Some of these things contributed major improvements to the average person. Advances in medicine a…

> There have been major advances throughout society in every area: medicine, nutrition, sanitation, manufacturing, electricity, refrigeration, printing, computing, telecommunications… You might say that's also a success of the schooling (and higher education) system - unless the people who produced these advances were all home schooled, which I somehow doubt...

Some were. Some would have made major advances whether they'd had a lot of formal schooling or not.

And many who had a lot of schooling learned to repeat, obey and sit still for 12-16 years.

And maybe had less initiative than they were born with. Maybe they learned to not question what they were told.

1. Thomas Edison Minimal formal education; mostly homeschooled by his mother. Edison was a voracious reader and learned through experimentation.

2. The Wright Brothers (Orville and Wilbur Wright) Neither completed high school. They learned through self-study, practical work, and their experiences running a bicycle repair shop.

3. Henry Ford Left school at 15 years old. Ford learned engineering and mechanics by working as an apprentice.

4. Michael Faraday Minimal formal schooling. Faraday worked as a bookbinder and educated himself through books and observation.

5. Benjamin Franklin Left school at age 10 due to financial constraints. Franklin was self-taught, primarily through reading and experimentation.

6. George Eastman Dropped out of school at age 14. Eastman learned accounting and photography on his own.

7. Elisha Otis Had little formal education and learned mechanics and engineering through work experience.

8. R. G. LeTourneau Dropped out of school in the sixth grade. He learned engineering through hands-on work and experimentation.

9. John D. Rockefeller Dropped out of high school to take a business course and learned through practical experience.

10. Philo Farnsworth Learned electronics and physics by reading and tinkering, despite being unable to afford college.

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