I was going to try TailScale but then it seemed the only option to do so as an individual was to login with a 3rd party cloud provider, which I in no way want tied into my networks. I gave up and just setup wireguard directly instead, I don't trust Tailscale either if that's their attitude towards privacy, it's permanently marred my vision of their product.
Your personal dislike of cloud SSO is not the same as "their attitude towards privacy". Before you do anything "permanently" you should read their reasoning behind that decision: https://tailscale.com/kb/1013/sso-providers/ > Tailscale works on top of the SSO/IDP/IAM identity provider you or your company already use. > We don’t support sign-up with email addresses. By design, Tailscale is not an identity provider: th…
Their website makes it seem like you can do SSO/MFA with even the free personal plan though. If you cannot integrate with your SSO provider then that's just marketing bullshit.
What they should really put there is "Can only sign in with Google/Github/Microsoft account".