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At least for me, I'm fairly sure that I'm better at not adding security flaws to my code (which I'm already not perfect at!) than I am at spotting them in code that I didn't write, unfortunately.
They're different mindsets. Some folks are better editors, inspectors, auditors, etc, whereas some are better builders, creators, and drafters. So what you're saying makes sense. And I'm definitely on the other side of that fence.
This is less a matter of "mindset", but more a general problem of information.