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> but internally, insecure people can be reached (not easy) How? Any advice?
Well, I have found that finding things in common with people is usually a great segue into improving relationships. Learning more about them, also helps a lot. Find the things they care about. It can be surprising. I have learned to make the first move, myself. It doesn’t work, if I insist on them doing it. Also, I need to accept their value system. If they truly have values that I can’t deal with, I usually “compart…
It feels like working with all sorts of people (and sometimes working around them) is an important skill that’s not usually focused on enough, which is how you get people that might be brilliant but also are really hard to work together with.