I would consider myself both.
It's true that in the US, the average person sees very little benefit to federal taxes. Most real, helpful things such as police, roads, schools and such are perceived to be only from local or possibly state taxes. This is not entirely true of course since Federal taxes do help for education and roads notably, but I would say that most people don't really think about it that way.
There's also a very strong individualism in the US, which tends to make people overlook outside factors when evaluating success, the "if you work hard and believe in yourself anything is possible" kinda thing.
Finally there's a general belief in the corruption and incompetence of big government, the idea that this money taken will just be wasted.
So taxes, especially Federal taxes, are seen as a burden, a form of robbery even. And by a bunch of incompetents no less.
In France, people do see direct benefits of paying taxes in their daily lives, mainly related to the medical system.
There is also a history of things like trains, the post office, ferries, electricity, telephone service, being handled by the central government (this is before the privatizations starting the 1990s), and crucially, people associating the involvement of the state in what were in some cases world class services.
And the French don't generally see a problem in letting the government handle these sorts of things. As an example there is now a petition going around in France to keep the Paris airports under government control.
So, paying taxes in France is seen more as a necessary burden to having a functional society rather than highway robbery.
What does piss off the French is not everyone paying their fair share, which these new taxes are helping to compensate. Even if not much at all in terms of actual revenue for the state, it's more of a symbolic gesture to appease the population.