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Re: Ask HN: What do you struggle with?

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I’m 30 and haven’t really had much dating experience. It boggles my mind how people are already married by 30. How does dating work? Serious question.

I'm guessing because you're on this site, you might have a professional life and/or hobbies that skew towards the introverted and solitary, or at the very least are predominantly male-dominated. Ultimately you have to find activities that allow you to meet a more diverse group of people, and when doing so, project a general air of confidence and sociability. Keep doing it until it becomes natural, it may take years.…

I strongly agree with all of this. About improv: you don't need to become a major improv hobbyist to benefit from it. One semester made me much more mindful of verbal and non verbal communication. Acting, even badly, improved my ability to listen and be myself around others.

I don't really love improv as a form of comedy but the practice is beneficial. I've even recommended it with success to direct reports of mine.

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I don't like the new way of doing things. Kubernetes, node, react, terraform... Everything is more complicated and also more fragile. I feel like the software world is collectively mad and I'm sitting on the outside asking "wtf is going on?" Or maybe I'm the crazy one.

So much of this. React is like one step forwards, 10 steps backwards. Mixing markup and logic, adding a whole front-end compiler, needing imports from third parties to re-implement basic browser functionality - for what? So that users have to see a loading spinner and their back button doesn't work any more? I'm 90% sure it's an accidental conspiracy to keep front end developer salaries high. Talking to older heads,…

I love what react does on the front end for Complex UI, but man does the tooling suck, and why the hell does it need 2mb of libs for a 'basic' app.... seriously, I get that Rails is moving into it's maturity and is avoiding big breaking changes , but why can't I spin up a Hybrid React/Rails app (that's not pure API) that doesn't require jiggery pockery with webpacker? I don't know, maybe I'm just over the hill already and doing it wrong ...

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I’m playing with the idea of quitting software , getting a softskills excel/MS word gov job for equal pay then only programming on spare time in elixir and tensor flow for fun side side projects —- current web dev environment is ridiculous !

> getting a softskills excel/MS word gov job for equal pay This is a great idea ( I sincerely mean it), and I too have been toying with this. Gov programming jobs are also very cushy. The knock on them ( / "cons" ) until recently was that they pay very less, almost 40% less, and that it's full of old people. But that has changed -- atleast in San Francisco and Bay Area where I live. Esp the City of San Francisco tech…

Taking your example [2]- how would you convince them you meet the requirements for PeopleSoft programming experience. That would seem to be the biggest hurdle as these jobs always seem to have very specific number of years requirements in a certain tech software package for anything other than entry level.

Re: Ask HN: What do you struggle with?

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To be really honest, I struggle with python, perl. This frankly sucks, because most of my field is made up of those two.

R feels like home just like bash.

Perl feels too cryptic and python too verbose and everything feels that I have to google.

Having no programming buddy to help learn with, it's an uphill task.

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I lost 120lbs and for a long time I was in almost the same situation, but I can say I "fixed this problem". I realized I didn't have a hormonal or even psychiatric issue: I was an addict. Addicted to sugar, fat, salt in extreme quantities. I would always go from a bowl to a box of cereal. So I quit it all. Cold turkey. It could "fit my macros", but I took no sugar, no junk food, no snacks. Only food. Real food. And I…

> I realized I didn't have a hormonal or even psychiatric issue: I was an addict. This I'd agree with. I'm addicted to food, but unfortunately there's no realistic way to quit food. > And I realized it's really hard to become fat on rice, chicken and vegetables. You are incorrect, in my experience.

Depends how good you are at cooking rice. As an East Asian, westerners generally suck at turning raw rice into something nice.

Re: Ask HN: What do you struggle with?

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I don't like the new way of doing things. Kubernetes, node, react, terraform... Everything is more complicated and also more fragile. I feel like the software world is collectively mad and I'm sitting on the outside asking "wtf is going on?" Or maybe I'm the crazy one.

You're not the only crazy one, or even crazy at all. Even before the technologies you mention, devs were complaining [1] about how the non-innate aspects of software development had overwhelmed the joy of writing code.

[1] http://www.drdobbs.com/tools/just-let-me-code/240168735

Re: Ask HN: What do you struggle with?

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I'm struggling with how to market myself. I'd like to take what I do as a full time employee and pivot into doing it as an independent consultant. Yet have been struggling to find enough side income to support making that jump full time, because I can't find an "elevator pitch" that articulates what I do and what value I provide. The vast majority of side gigs I've gotten have come from previous bosses who have firsthand experience working with me, but the work is too sporadic to rely on.

In case anyone here has any advice in how I can position myself: I'm a generalist that specializes in getting shit done. Whether that's strategy/advisory support, execution of exploratory initiatives until they show enough ROI for a full time hire, or filling skill gaps that are too sporadic to justify an FTE. I've worked directly under CMOs, CEOs, COOs, CTOs, business owners, as well as client-facing agency work. And in essentially all cases, have been the guy you go to when you don't know who to go to. I generally "seed" efforts, working end to end until it scales to the point of supporting specialists. I've been a one-person data/analytics team (fully owned from maintaining the databases to coding the ETL to writing SQL queries that support the analytics/dashboards for the business) that I've scaled to an entire operations and decision support department. I've managed advertising campaigns and created an entire conversion rate optimization infrastructure to support getting the most out of my campaigns. I've also worked with technical teams to adjust development processes so that they incorporate best practices that drastically improve the ease of marketing/analytics efforts. And most of all, I end up getting pulled into meetings to resolve confusion between business teams and technical teams.

Ideally, I'd like to provide those same type of "catch all" services as a consultant. For a monthly retainer, I can fill whatever strategy or tactical level gap you have. If you're a technical person/team struggling with sales or marketing, I can provide that guidance along with initial implementation/execution to prove it out. For business people/teams, I can either provide technical points of view to ease communication with your tech team, or provide actual execution services if needed.

Re: Ask HN: What do you struggle with?

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Anxiety about the future of artificial intelligence. I feel like human intelligence is constant and AI is ever-increasing. Eventually we’ll be way behind and I don’t know how to think about a world where humans are second tier. It’s honestly made me less happy and affects my day-to-day life.
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