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Pretty much every political position is considered "hate speech" by people on one side of an issue or the other. The term has been over used so much it's losing much of its meaning. > I've always found it difficult to dissociate views vs actions when it comes to espoousing a hateful view. Views: giving a speech arguing abortion should be illegal Actions: blowing up an abortion clinic I find it very troubling so many…
So, if my view is that trans women should be called men, and I call a trans woman at my work a man, is this speech or an action? This is where I'm having difficulty distinguishing speech and action.
For your company, though, they could fire you for violating their internal policies.
To categorize the speech, I would say it's just being an asshole. Even if you believe biological sex is assigned at birth and is immutable, going out of your way to not address someone the way they wish to be addressed is just being intentionally rude.
But even then, it's still speech.