Obligatory quote from that XKCD about automating things. Remember, most of these tools simply automate what you already do. If you don't spend much time performing certain things, you don't need the tool. The cargo cult of "I should use Packer to create my Vagrant boxes, so I can have dev/prod parity" only works to a point. Instead, look at where you spend lots of time, and then look for tools that automate that task.
Personally, I try to be pretty conservative with tools that I start relying on. I know by painful experience that some tools get abandoned, some change drastically, making it impossible to upgrade, and some just turn out to be very buggy and horrible once you start putting them through their paces. In lots of cases, it's better to be critical than permissive when it comes to your infrastructure (and that's what these tools are aimed at). In almost all cases, your edge is in knowing the tools you use, and knowing about other tools. It's not in knowing all and using everything under the sun.