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The point at which your politics leads you to claim that sex (in this case we rather aren't talking gender, but actual sex) experiences in childbirth should be treated precisely equally is the point at which you need to sit down with your politics and have a long, heartfelt discussion vis a vis your politics' connection to reality. Some recognition of the differences in experience and particularly in consequences are…
bluthru's more important point is that by offering different amounts of time off for men and women you're disincentivizing managers from hiring women. The simplest way of removing this "hidden tax" on hiring women is to make the tax the same for men. A proper policy would give equal maternal/paternal time off for both parents for either birth or adoption, and also have some sort of paid medical leave program in place…
Since a few years back there's a bonus for parents who split the leave equally, but it's going to take generations until everyone does it. (All of my peers do it, but they're university educated upper middle class that can afford it)