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Use social media mindfully

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Re: Use social media mindfully

#41

Earlier quoted context omitted.

when vampires are knocking at everyones front door , a sizeable proportion of the populace will be vampirized , such that any barricades to your domicile will be inevitably breached

You have to welcome vampires in.

doesn't make much of a difference when you are the only non vampire left

Re: Use social media mindfully

#42
I only have Facebook, mostly because of local community groups, buy/sell pages, marketplace and some group chats. I find blocking the news feed effectively allows me to use it as a tool without being subject to brainrot.

Re: Use social media mindfully

#43

My rule for 2026 is to limit short-form media. No Twitter/X, no Bluesky, no Mastodon, no Instagram, no TikTok. If it is designed to be short-form (limited characters, quick videos) then it is not for me in 2026. I had already avoided short-form video but I added short-form text this year.

I stopped watching short form content last year. I’m not on instagram/X etc, only on YouTube. My only annoyance is that YouTube still insists on shoving them in my face on the app homepage even though I don’t watch them. It just requires a modicum of willpower now not to click and go down the rabbit hole, which I’ll occasionally fail at.

I blocked them from my suggestions page with ublock origin

Re: Use social media mindfully

#44
I mostly stay away from algorithmic timelines and deactivate retweets etc on X and Bluesky. For the rest I use them for some snarky comments with a select group of people.

I've tried completely quitting, but I'm not very social irl and would get lonely eventually, so this controlled dose of interaction is what works for me.

Re: Use social media mindfully

#45
You can use various tools to block the feeds on those websites or redirect the front page to your notifications. This has completely cut browsing for me. I still use those websites because my work requires an audience, but itself pretty much write-only media.

Re: Use social media mindfully

#47

I quit (deleted accounts) all social media 5 years ago (before reels and short form media entered) and LinkedIn a year ago. This whole 'there is value in comments and DMs and connections for jobs' is the hook basically. I considered whether it was worth it. The answer for probably most people is 'No'. Here is something I noticed: More present in the real world (no more head buried in the phone, neck feels better too)…

I haven't had social media in 11 years.

The best part to me is not mediating all experience through this filter of post worthiness.

I can remember anything I would learn or experience would be quickly interrupted by the thought of the possibility and worthiness of sharing what I just learned or experienced.

I would be lying if I said I am not more disconnected from people than I would be otherwise but social media gives me a form of a learning disability because of the post worthiness filter.

Re: Use social media mindfully

#48

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I stopped watching short form content last year. I’m not on instagram/X etc, only on YouTube. My only annoyance is that YouTube still insists on shoving them in my face on the app homepage even though I don’t watch them. It just requires a modicum of willpower now not to click and go down the rabbit hole, which I’ll occasionally fail at.

I blocked them from my suggestions page with ublock origin

Yeah but that doesn’t work in the app, or does it?

Re: Use social media mindfully

#49
>If you’re job hunting, LinkedIn especially can help you connect with the right people.

This bothers me, feels like linkedIn is setup more in a way to take advantage of that potential bargain.

Re: Use social media mindfully

#50

My rule for 2026 is to limit short-form media. No Twitter/X, no Bluesky, no Mastodon, no Instagram, no TikTok. If it is designed to be short-form (limited characters, quick videos) then it is not for me in 2026. I had already avoided short-form video but I added short-form text this year.

I stopped watching short form content last year. I’m not on instagram/X etc, only on YouTube. My only annoyance is that YouTube still insists on shoving them in my face on the app homepage even though I don’t watch them. It just requires a modicum of willpower now not to click and go down the rabbit hole, which I’ll occasionally fail at.

I suggest to use the browser even on phones and tablets. Once you get used to YouTube with extensions you realise how aggressive and enshittified the app is
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