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It feels threatening knowing that your partner is always right, and thereby when you argue makes you always (mostly) wrong. It also feels threatening knowing that she's capable of doing whatever it is you're doing just better.
Are you intimidated by her? Are you sure she's smarter? Maybe she's just more assertive and/or forceful?
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She's capable of studying any new topic much faster than I. Even topic that she has no experience in and I have been working on for several years. She's doing an MD in Medicine and a bsc in computer science simultaneously. She's also a Marathon runner and a quite successful artist.
So, more focused and motivated, then?
I believe I read an article in a newspaper once where they tracked married couples with differing IQs over time. Where the male was the smarter partner, the woman's IQ increased. Where the female was the smarter partner, the woman's IQ decreased. I guess the consolation from this is it may become a less acute problem over time :-)
this is genius. Do you a link to the article perhaps?
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> (the girl _who_ you are dating is better than the girl _that_ your friend is dating.) Shouldn't that be "the girl whom you are dating?"
You are correct. I'm no grammarian, but I believe I do relatively well and I don't think anyone would dispute my advice on learning to write well. However, the rules of grammar change over time. Usage of who versus whom is a case which could go either way. There is the proper usage and then there is the popular usage. I hardly ever hear the word "whom" being used and I don't use the word because I feel weird saying i…
Intelligence is usually something you inherit or you get as a gift, when you're born. Being smart or stupid works the same with being short or tall. Not exactly something that you can change.
It's stupid to judge ourselves or other people by these premises. It's smart to judge people by the way work with these premises. You can be very intelligent and endup doing a lot of bad things or you can be stupid as hell but do good and add real value to the world.
So don't bother yourself anymore. Love her, don't lie to hear, fuck her well and make her laugh. You'll be just fine.