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Re: I'm done with coding

#41
post #9

His mom telling him he's "neurodivergent and won’t survive at a smaller company"... unfortunately I am familiar with this type of mother.

I don't understand this type of parenting, and I'm sorry you had this.

I'm fairly certain I'm not the smartest guy around, never was, but my mother never put anything in my path to make me believe I wasn't.

Re: I'm done with coding

#42
post #7

If the author is reading this: thank you for having the strength to say no to morally wrong work, despite the money, despite pressure from your family. Good for you. You stood up for your morals. I wish that more people had your strength. You are experiencing an identity crisis over this, which is normal. Writing about it is good. Talking to a therapist would probably be good too, if that works for you. If I can give…

> In fact, I’ll just live off dividend income and try to get my new IT startup Fourplex off the ground

It’s easy to say no when the money is not needed.

Re: I'm done with coding

#43

What? How much money did this person make working on software they consider surveillance, before deciding they were comfortable enough to leave? Looks like they made enough money to live off “dividend income.” Something about their dad? The hell is this?

Yeah, this post is mostly rambling nonsense

Re: I'm done with coding

#45
post #40

Neel, based on your linkedin, you're 27 or 28. You're a grown adult. Stop following your mom's orders. Quit your job, take some time off to decompress and recover from your clear burnout, then figure out what you want to do. Life isn't Microsoft or flipping burgers. There's a lot of things in between. You have one life, don't waste it trying to please others. But simultaneously, don't assume that your burnout is perm…

He seems to be of Indian origin. Indian households can be very tight knit and prioritize financial success a lot more.

Re: I'm done with coding

#46
post #24

What a cynical view. You can switch jobs! Nothing is going to force you to work on surveillance software! I spent nearly a decade working on Salesforce. It’s not even on my resume and you couldn’t pay me to do it!

It’s the view of someone currently hurting, disillusioned, tired and angry.

It may change or it may not; but it’s a valid feeling, especially for right now.

Re: I'm done with coding

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post #45
post #40

Neel, based on your linkedin, you're 27 or 28. You're a grown adult. Stop following your mom's orders. Quit your job, take some time off to decompress and recover from your clear burnout, then figure out what you want to do. Life isn't Microsoft or flipping burgers. There's a lot of things in between. You have one life, don't waste it trying to please others. But simultaneously, don't assume that your burnout is perm…

He seems to be of Indian origin. Indian households can be very tight knit and prioritize financial success a lot more.

Tight knit might be downplaying the hold mothers of the subcontinent tend to have over their children.

Re: I'm done with coding

#48
post #40

Neel, based on your linkedin, you're 27 or 28. You're a grown adult. Stop following your mom's orders. Quit your job, take some time off to decompress and recover from your clear burnout, then figure out what you want to do. Life isn't Microsoft or flipping burgers. There's a lot of things in between. You have one life, don't waste it trying to please others. But simultaneously, don't assume that your burnout is perm…

Neel, don't crawl into a hole. Use your skill. Fuck big tech.

Let's use these LLMs that they think will replace us all to create browser agents that remove ads, tracking, click bait, attention stealing... heck, we could even de-engagement farm the internet. No more trolling, hate, or toxicity.

If we all get personal assistants at the edge on our own pane of glass and hardware, then they have to pay us for access.

Want to show me an ad? Pay up.

Neel, quite often in life it turns out that your burning problem is also a thousand other people's burning problem. In your case, it's billions.

Re: I'm done with coding

#49
post #45
post #40

Neel, based on your linkedin, you're 27 or 28. You're a grown adult. Stop following your mom's orders. Quit your job, take some time off to decompress and recover from your clear burnout, then figure out what you want to do. Life isn't Microsoft or flipping burgers. There's a lot of things in between. You have one life, don't waste it trying to please others. But simultaneously, don't assume that your burnout is perm…

He seems to be of Indian origin. Indian households can be very tight knit and prioritize financial success a lot more.

All the more reason why they need to hear the truth

Re: I'm done with coding

#50

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I’m nearly 40 and have threatened quitting over things that violated my conscience within the last 5 years. They recanted.

Belief systems, convictions and morals don’t have an age limit. They may have a “I need to not die” limit, but that’s the American lack of a social safety net.

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