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This has nothing to do with English language. As a culminating point of a dialog box, I believe the suggested action should be towards the corner, not hidden between a 'Cancel' button in the right corner and the rest of the dialog box.
This is what I came here to say- one more reason not mentioned for putting the primary action in the corner is that it's easier to find and fix on with your eyes and the mouse.
Computer: "Delete?" Me: Yes.
Computer: "Delete?" Me: Whoa! Who said anything about delete? Let me read the buttons carefully and find the Cancel button.
The mistakes happen only a small fraction of the time, so the most efficient user flow is "verb?" -> "yes".