> It almost sounds like blaming women who wear certain types of clothes for attracting sex crime.
I completely stopped reading this comment here, when you wrote this, because that was a completely off-base comparison and has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. Worse, you probably know it; I wouldn't assume you to be stupid. And that was a mountainously stupid comment.
In hosting, there are customers that attract DoS attacks. Period. Ask anybody who does hosting. IRC servers are a canonical example and are DoS magnets. Torrent trackers are another. Pastebin sites, like Pastie, are becoming another (look who uses pastebin.com a lot: Anonymous). Hell, Facebook and Google probably takes several DoS attacks a day just by nature of being well-known.
Don't even conflate my argument with an undertone of sexism.