Do you want to know how popular systems are actually built, from the inside, or do you want carefully groomed triumphal announcements of new, perfectly-formed features?
I struggle with this a lot in my writing too, but I've drawn a conclusion I'm sticking with: it's better to relay what the team is actually doing, "warts" and all. We ranked on HN a few weeks ago with a post about user-mode WireGuard that was basically a litany of engineering mistakes, and it's one of the things I've most enjoyed writing.
Every serious product gets built the way Tailscale is describing. You start some components with the simplest thing that can reasonably work, and see how far you can take them. The JSON file Tailscale used to use was one of the most interesting and valuable things they wrote about.
If you want content about how to built best-practices-compliant hyperscaler-grade systems, there are places to go to get that kind of content. But you've never had a problem with Tailscale that owed to their JSON file backend not scaling --- how I know that is, you've likely never experienced a stability problem with Tailscale at all, because it just doesn't break. That they got it to work, for a long time, with a JSON file backend should make you think harder about how you build things.