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> turn their FTL ship around I feel like this is the part that would probabally be hard (ie not possible) when going faster than light, assuming such a thing is possible. Also whatever magical space warp it is that lets you go that fast could presumably also obscure your ability to see yourself in the distance.
"Turning around" is just stopping at some point (ie. some inertial reference frame) and then accelerating in the opposite direction with your FTL drive. You have all the time in the world to do this maneuver because you're already effectively in the past: https://physics.stackexchange.com/a/54242
Slowing down to reach the speed of light might be as hard as speeding up to reach it; I remember it played a role in the theory of tachyons, hypothetical FTL elementary particles which could not be slowed down.