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I disagree with you. Your argument could be made about anything, there is no such thing as a "human" either, it's just a big bunch of wave-particles that does not have some clear limits. Yet when we talk about a human, we all know what that is, and when a human is seating on a chair we don't think the chair is part of it. The same applies to atoms, we all agree on what they are, and we can show pictures of them etc.…
"The same applies to atoms, we all agree on what they are, and we can show pictures of them etc." This is where you bury the lede. It's clear if you read many of the comments here that there is no such agreement. Some people _think_ of an atom as something you can reach out and touch, or grok in some deep sense distinct from performing specific experiments. Others take an approach that's more in line with theory in t…
Right, with an atomic force microscope.
...but it almost sounds like you're suggesting that atoms and molecules are NOT something you could individually pick up with an AFM?