Built on top of immature overhyped tech (nestjs, prisma, etc...) with lots of issues. Something very common in the JS/NPM that always gives you headaches down the road. There's an arms race to sell hosting through immature buggy magical frameworks in the JS world, so this is to be expected. I'll take the one/two days to set up node, express, postgres with libs for now. What takes up the majority of the time is domain…
Looking forward we have a strong belief in both NestJS and Prisma. They are great technologies on there way up (and in many ways, they are already there)
This does nothing to address the OPs concerns. You might as well have just said "Don't worry about it!"