Meanwhile i9 9900k still has only 16 3.0 lanes ...
Intel just dropped a bunch of details about the actual competitor to EPYC, Cascade Lake AP. These server chips will have 48 PCI-E 3.0 lanes, still not anywhere near the EPYC's claimed amount, but definitely better than what they are selling to the niche high-end gamers.
Sure people hate Intel for their practices, but they can afford to be hated because they still can milk the market for at least a couple of years. "No one ever got fired for buying Intel" is a great asset and they have the confidence they'll bounce back and offer at competing product "in the future".