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Can you elaborate on why your don't get grey? That was always what I expected and I was surprised that you just get a muddy brown if you mix random paints.
One practical reason you don’t get gray is that pigments have to be real chemicals and so you can’t have a green that perfectly balances a given red’s spectrum. For transparent inks on a white background, if their spectra did match perfectly, you would get a perfect gray. But those perfect dyes don’t exist (or are expensive), hence the K in the CMYK color model. For opaque paint, it’s weirder: paint scatters and abso…
Basically the counterintuitivity you're citing goes away when you talk about color distinct from luminance, which is how most people here understand it anyway.