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Quora: "How does a penniless entrepreneur attract gold diggers?"

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Re: Quora: "How does a penniless entrepreneur attract gold diggers?"

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this answer on Quora was specifically marked as "not for reproduction" so that it wouldn't be reproduced on other sites. i guess we'll see how Quora handles such cases.

Curiously, "not for reproduction" is also one (partial) answer to the original question.

Re: Quora: "How does a penniless entrepreneur attract gold diggers?"

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

What you are describing is the concept of "Male gaze" in feminist theory. As common as this phenomenon is in general, it's especially rife in tech/geek circles in my experience.

Aren't theories supposed to be falsifiable, or does that only apply to scientific theories?

In the social sciences, the word "theory" mainly refers to philosophical discussion and political activism.

Re: Quora: "How does a penniless entrepreneur attract gold diggers?"

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I just celebrated my twelfth wedding anniversary and here's some advice: what you want to look for in a mate is a loyal friend for life . Things change. People change: your city, your religion, your personality, your income, your health. Through each change it's nice to have someone to make the change with you. A long, successful marriage requires that the relationship be reinvented as things change. At first you are…

The flip side to that, as a person currently dissolving his marriage of 10 years, is that it's a LOT harder to find a 'loyal friend for life' than it is with some other quality you prefer. It's also easy to rationalize how _easy_ it would be to love someone _forever_ when you're in the throes of new love, and just as easy to chalk up blame when that passion dies.

I agree with the sentiment, I really do, and my (soon to be ex-) wife and I are still really good friends, but not only is 'find your best friend' not _necessarily_ a magic bullet, but it's also a lot harder to ferret out than, say, 'large breasted' or 'wealthy'.

Though, it could just be my bitterness talking. :'(

Re: Quora: "How does a penniless entrepreneur attract gold diggers?"

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

While this is true, we should never forget that we are the one animal with the capability to move beyond this. Through conscious effort, you can overcome many of the artifacts of evolution that run contrary to your happiness in the world in which we live in now. It's not easy, and it's never complete, but you can continuously improve yourself.

How long until the Matt Maroon's Overcome Evolution DVD set is released? :-)

It will come out precisely 1 month after he gets 100 people to sign up on the hypothetical teaser page committing to buy it for $20, sight unseen. Once enough signups, he can design and produce the DVD, etc. That would be the smart/lazy approach. :)
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