Reading, interpreting, and using dense technical documentation is a skill, just like reading maths. If you don't get anything out of it, maybe this is a skill you are presently lacking and something you should improve. Taking notes on what you are doing and reviewing your initial guesses, resources consulted, and eventual solutions may help you consolidate this ad-hoc knowledge into understanding.
I've read many man pages, many many times, and if I get nothing out of it, I find it is invariably because I am in a hurry, and I'm probably about to fuck something up. The thing to do is usually to slow down and do it right. Only rarely is the right thing to ask someone else for the solution, or see what some other poorly-informed person on the internet thought, although in an emergency asking for help is almost always the right call.
A huge amount of what man pages don't tell you is general Unix philosophy. Man pages don't tell you the lore around the thing, they describe the implementation. It's up to you to infer the consequences and how it can be used. Man pages don't hide the underlying bones of the system either, and generally assume you're comfortable writing a C program to test a syscall if you're not sure about something. So sure, reading man pages isn't always easy, but neither is getting regular exercise or eating your vegetables.