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> You really don't want to end up with dementia and related illnesses, it totally sours everyone's view of you. This seems like such an absurd conclusion to this, as though the opinions of other people of you are what matter when you functionally lose your personhood and then die. Maybe a better focus would be that there often isn't a good way for a community to manage a person who suddenly becomes irrational because…
Valuing how others remember you is definitely a motivation in life for many. I respect that it is not your own, respect that it may be mine. It is by no means "absurd".
Daniel Kahneman opted for assisted suicide in Switzerland
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#372I'd like to quote from the HN guidelines:
> Don't be curmudgeonly. Thoughtful criticism is fine, but please don't be rigidly or generically negative.
With that said I urge you those who disapprove to ask whether you are being "rigidly negative" about this.
1. Is this disapproval perhaps coming from your religious context? If so, please pause and consider why that may not apply to the rest of us. And also whether you really think that your religious beliefs must be forced on the rest of us.
2. Is this disapproval coming from a sense of deep unease that this post causes? If so, know that this unease is shared by most of us. But try and muster the fortitude to go past that unease and consider the decision from a place of compassion.
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#374I do not know if this was ever widely practiced, but I think the ancient Indian ritual of going to the forest and starving to death in your last days is basically fine. It gives a dignified, sacred end to a life, while the modern medical sciences constant battle against the inevitable ends up distorting and deforming the last days of your life and forces you to leave without dignity clinging to the last vestiges of your humanity that’s left.
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#375I see a lot of comments here expressing disapproval about assisted suicide. I'd like to quote from the HN guidelines: > Don't be curmudgeonly. Thoughtful criticism is fine, but please don't be rigidly or generically negative. With that said I urge you those who disapprove to ask whether you are being "rigidly negative" about this. 1. Is this disapproval perhaps coming from your religious context? If so, please pause…
Many/most of the nursing staff are Filipino and strongly Roman Catholic.
As she lay dying and unable to speak, one of the nurses undertook to convert her at this last minute to their religion. At night, alone, after all visitors had left, she would come into mum's room and press mum, a very committed atheist, to pray for her salvation.
It's hard to describe how vulnerable someone is who is stuck in their bed and dependant on the nursing team for everything, even sips of water.
I will say this was not representative of her care, but it opened my eyes to the lengths religious believers will go to to push their views on others.
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Right. It's a not-so-well-kept secret that hospice care is actually assisted suicide in disguise. It's done with a wink and a nudge, hiding behind the principle of double effect, but it's a mercy everyone knows is happening. It's sad that it has to be done covertly.
Which is highly illegal, especially as a form of monetizing pain and lack of agency from elders incapable of decision making but flush with money and inheritors
Re: Daniel Kahneman opted for assisted suicide in Switzerland
#377I see a lot of comments here expressing disapproval about assisted suicide. I'd like to quote from the HN guidelines: > Don't be curmudgeonly. Thoughtful criticism is fine, but please don't be rigidly or generically negative. With that said I urge you those who disapprove to ask whether you are being "rigidly negative" about this. 1. Is this disapproval perhaps coming from your religious context? If so, please pause…
My mum died earlier this year. In hospital, she was approved for assisted dying. There is a mandatory waiting period as part of the process. Many/most of the nursing staff are Filipino and strongly Roman Catholic. As she lay dying and unable to speak, one of the nurses undertook to convert her at this last minute to their religion. At night, alone, after all visitors had left, she would come into mum's room and press…
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The parent described someone who went above and beyond the norm of other members in his community in his constant positive interaction with his neighbors, collegues, and former students. It is highly likely this kind of person would give a considerable shit if he knew he would become a nightmare for the same community. There may be others reading in the thread who also can relate to the personality of the teacher and…
There's a difference between "I don't want the disease because I don't want to become a menace to others" (what you're saying) and "I don't want the disease because it would make me lose social status" (what the original commenter said).
For myself: I hope for assisted suicide before Alzheimer’s. I value me for me. Not-me I don’t value, and Alzheimer’s does not improve not-me over me. But people who cannot separate me from not-me (with whom not-me loses status for me)… I don’t care about them! (Philosophical mood.)
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My brother had schizophrenia. No one thought well of him. I guess he should have killed himself as well by the logic some are professing on here. Oh, he tried, but he ended up dying of heart disease. > Maybe a better focus would be that there often isn't a good way for a community to manage a person who suddenly becomes irrational because of an illness. Yes, this is the focus. Science has stalled when it comes to neu…
Dementia and Alzheimer is not something that can simply be managed throught treatment. It is an inexorable descent into suffering for both the person and its entourage with absolutely zero hope of getting better. At best in the last stages you get very short glimpses of normality within hours of confusions, frustrations, anger and pain. If I am ever diagnosed with one of those, I absolutely want the chance to end my…