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Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

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Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#371

Use the internet as a reference only and otherwise avoid it, specifically social media, entirely. I've already started and have already noticed how peaceful and calm the real world is all around me. And that's all that matters.

I think it's interesting that this comment and a few others call out "I, somebody who is currently on the Internet, would like to avoid the Internet more going forward" What is it about the Internet that we want to get away from? What do we think is out there that would be "better"? It seems very hard to cut something so stimulating. Say we're on the Internet randomly browsing 4 hours a day. I don't think it's realis…

The Internet is a mood organ (among other things.)

> The book is full of delights, but one of my favourite parts is the opening passage, four pages long, in which Rick Deckard and his wife Iran are arguing about the Penfield Mood Organ as they get up in the morning. The Mood Organ is a device with which, by punching in a number, a human user can instantly alter his or her mood. Deckard routinely sets it to have him get up in a cheerful mood, and advises his wife to do the same. Her objection to this is almost exactly the same as my objection above to sentimentality. Emotions need to be earned. She tells her husband that her mood organ schedule for the day includes a “six-hour self-accusatory depression” and when Deckard asks her why on Earth anyone would want to schedule that, she argues that it’s healthy to feel emotions that are congruent with the situation you find yourself in: in their case a poisoned and depopulated world. In fact, she tells him, she has programmed the organ to plunge her into despair twice a month.

>> “But a mood like that,” Rick said, “you’re apt to stay in it, not dial your way out…”

>> “I program an automatic resetting for three hours later,” his wife said sleekly. “A 481. Awareness of the manifold possibilities open to me in the future: new hope that—”

>> “I know 481,” he interrupted. He had dialed out the combination many times; he relied on it greatly.

> Without reproducing the whole passage, I can’t convey just how funny it is. Among the other settings they discuss are 888, “the desire to watch TV, no matter what’s on it” and 3, which stimulates the cerebral cortex into wanting to dial.

https://www.tor.com/2015/05/21/that-was-awesome-the-penfield...

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

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post #283

I want to use my phone less. I don’t want to use it at all during idle time. Instead, I’d like to fill that time with reading books, drawing, and journaling. If I can get my phone use to under 2 hours per day, I think I’ll be more mentally healthy. The area I need to work on the most is phone use before bed. I don’t know how to fall asleep quickly, so I use my phone to kill time until I eventually fall asleep. I thin…

> The area I need to work on the most is phone use before bed. For me, I started falling asleep quickly once I chose a home for my phone (downstairs on my kitchen counter). I also discovered I started getting out of bed more quickly too! > I sometimes wish I could ditch my phone entirely. However, it’s important for me to have communication paths to message friends, so I need my phone for iMessage. You might not be a…

I was on the “no phone by bed” train until my garage was broken into at 3am and realized I couldn’t quickly call the police.

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#373
To work on procrastination and improve my focus

To improve my writing, I'd like to learn how to evoke emotions in the reader

To make my friendships more meaningful and to meet more interesting people

To make an impact on people for the better, hopefully using tech but not necessarily

To smile more and have try to not be stressed

To try and figure out what I want to do and work towards trying it out

If I get the time(which I wont), learn the math behind machine learning and gain the technical chops to build a MVP.

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

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My most important resolution this year is to find a therapist - that's quite challenging where I live, because most therapists are fully booked and have waiting lists spanning months or even a year. I was already in therapy a long time ago and this year I had multiple lows which should have been the signal to start therapy again.

The second resolution is to find some social hobby I am passioned for and to find a group of good friends to socialize outside of work.

Besides these two resolutions, I have some minor ones: - Get some strength improvements in the gym (I started this year but the progress could've been way better) - Try out some new recipes and try to get good at cooking the ones I like - Get some decent sleep hygiene & morning routines

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#375

I feel, and I think it's a common thread for my generation, that we have grown weary of drinking from the information firehose. The internet has become like high fructose corn syrup for our brains. We're fat with it. So I want to consume less (low quality information) and create more. I like the idea of "note-writing as fundamental unit of knowledge work"[1] My resolution this year is to read more and to write more,…

any other tips you've read/received on writing concisely in general?

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#376

- Sign a new contract, my target is $1000 per day, but seeing how the economy is atm, I’ll probably be ok with anything over $750 per day. - Buy the penthouse I’ve been saving for. With a bit of luck the housing market will crash and I’ll get it at a discount. - Sign up at least one more client for my side hussle consultancy. - Cross the 100 n-count mark. - Start aviation lessons.

Yeah, my carbon footprint isn't nearly as big as my over-sized ego either and I need to step it up too.

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

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post #17

Climb a V10 boulder outdoors!

What is a V10? Outdoors in Aus. on the Ewbank freeclimbing scale, the blade line to Federation Peak is an easy (albeit highly exposed) 17 [1], whereas Cape Raoul poles [2] rate about a 22. [1] https://zenandtheartofclimbing.com/50-classic-climbs-austral... [2] https://zenandtheartofclimbing.com/50-classic-climbs-austral...

It’s hard to compare v scale to aus scale and I’m definitely not very familiar, but googling says that v10 is roughly equal to 31 on the aus scale. Of course bouldering is also typically 5m tall or less, and it’s very hard to compare boulders to routes. I think the equivalent font grade is 7c+

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#379
To consolidate, concentrate, and collaborate.

Consolidate: I have too many things going on at the moment. A day job, freelance consulting gigs, side projects, family and stuff. Need to sort my priorities and consolidate some of the stuff to avoid burnout.

Concentrate: Multi-tasking is more of a bane than a boon. It usually impacts concentration, leading to some not-so-good decisions. My goal is to reduce the number of active tasks at a time and focus more on things in front of me than worrying about the future.

Collaborate: Another goal of the upcoming year is to collaborate more. There are so many interesting problems around us that can be solved with collective wisdom. I am all for active collaboration, without spreading myself thin, of course.

Re: Ask HN: What is your new year's resolution?

#380
I think context is important.

This year I mostly spent it planning for the later half. I had a toxic employer and was upset with how dating was going post-divorce (in that - nothing was happening at all. I’ve still never been on a date and find it incredibly hard to meet single women in real life.). I quit my job, traveled, and moved away from SF with the plan to tie someone down and move back eventually.

So, some goals…

Continue lifting weight but get more dedicated. Pursue TRT in the later half of the year.

Go back to work but - preferably with an employer I want rather than one I had to always settle for. I spent the second half of the year not working because I traveled a lot and moved to Manhattan.

Find a life partner. I’m turning 33 next year and time is quite finite. Children and all the other things are quickly falling away as possibilities. Since my divorce - this has been my number one goal but it hasn’t been moved any closer at all even though I’ve taken drastic steps. Peers are now suggesting maybe the $100k matchmaking services should be considered more heavily - but I think it’ll be a waste of effort. (And I don’t like the ethics of it tbh)

Find another city to move to. I’ve spent a few months in Manhattan with nothing to show. I hate to move on so quickly but time is finite. So, I need to move to two other places before the year is up. The biggest hurdle isn’t moving but figuring out where the best place to spend my time is. So far, literally no one has any ideas. Which speaks to how bad things are overall.

Keep traveling through the year to meet new people and keep the pipeline full. This is difficult cause the things I used to travel for more often aren’t happening with the frequency as they did.

Develop a plan to get out of engineering. It’s super bad for my social and dating life. It’s the number one social reason I have a hard time making friends and relationships. It’s akin to being an incel as far as professional stigma goes.

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