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Most people who invite me over for a sandwich would be insulted if I entered their house, took the sandwich they made me and left. In fact, I probably would never get invited over again.
Meanwhile I wish someone would come over to take one of my sandwiches. It turns out that human contact in covid’s era is hard to come by. You’re probably right though. But if you ever find yourself near Lake St Louis, MO, feel free to raid our fridge.
They suspect you wouldn't invite them again if all they did was raid your fridge, and not even say so much as a "hi".