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I'm not sure if you misread my comment, but my point was that it's far too easy to accidentally introduce bugs in merge commits that go unnoticed for a long time. I've never seen a rebase gone awry introduce production bugs, but I've known multiple gnarly bugs caused by errant merges. YMMV.
as always, different circumstances can generate different results. In a merge, you solve conflicts once. Whereas in a rebase, those conflicts will turn into incremental conflicts. If the branch history is "tidy", with discrete, purposeful commits, this can be easier. Especially if incrementally rebasing. The main difference is one rewrites history and the other does not. A rebase is by nature destructive and as such…
The main difference is that a merge sticks around in your repo forever, a commit that people assume has no real code changes in it but actually sometimes it does. A rebase is done once, and then your git history doesn't have to deal with it ever again.
Yes, you raise a fair point that if you've dug yourself into a deep pit already with long-lived branches and overlapping work, it might be slightly easier to extract yourself from the pit with a merge. But then you're leaving that fetid pit in your repository forever.