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The endgames of bad faith communication

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Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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post #348

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Ah, is that the main point of disagreement? People are thinking back to their own experience of gender at that age, and then expecting it to be the same for trans kids. I think, as I mentioned, a logical explanation for that is that cis people don't have any reason to think about it. Or at least didn't when we were kids. I've asked my kids, and they're both confident in their gender at a young age.

I wasn't trying to disagree, just trying to understand what you meant.

Ah, gotcha. I bet there's something to that though. It seems natural that having a very strong sense of gender at age 4 would appear ridiculous to most people given that it doesn't fit with their own experience. I do expect over time mainstream opinion on this will shift much as it has for homosexuality. Likewise there I think it was initially difficult for straight people to relate, because it just didn't fit with their own experience at all—sexual attraction is something for people of the opposite sex; if you think you're attracted to people of the same sex, that doesn't make sense, so something must have happened to you. Over time, more and more gay people were out, more people came to realize that they knew gay people, and those people truly did experience what they said they experienced, and mainstream belief shifted.

Per the original comment here though, I hope it doesn't happen by one 'side' winning and beating the other into submission, but rather through that process of understanding.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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> if the goal is persuasion then good-faith arguments don't scale That phrase helps crystalize the concept very nicely.

Aye, the ideal goal of disussion shouldn't be to persuade in my opinion, but to explore each other's ideas with the aim of modifying and improving each position. I think the process of doing that happens to be the best way to actually get people to go along with something also.

> explore each other's ideas with the aim of modifying and improving each position.

That's the academic concept of discussion, which is a very fine and respectable (not to mention important) thing.

Sometimes you do have to persuade, because action is required.

For instance, it is important to persuade non-believers in human-caused global warming; it's not just about improving their intellectual position.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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Take an interest, not a position. A position often causes us to feel like we have to defend a position, taking an interest helps increase the likelihood that both parties remain open

With many political matters, though, people inherently have to hold positions by virtue of the fact that the issues affect their material interests. You need to remain open in spite of that, but there are also limits to how open one can be when someone else is arguing that you should lose your job or that your health insurance should be able to deny you coverage for care, or maybe that you are culturally or genetical…

Not all controversial matters are political. For instance, it's not inherently political whether global warming is real or whether vaccines work in curtailing a pandemic. Only a certain side in these debates wants to reduce arguments in which there is rational evidence (and important actions to be taken) to something that is merely "political", and therefore a just a matter of constitutional free speech and action.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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> You have indeed! I asked if there was any specific part of the post you responded to, which which you disagreed. Since you did not provide any though.... I replied addressing that. If you are unsatisfied with my reply, please quote the text of the specific question you asked that you believe I did not answer. Note also: I may not hold a position on object level matters - me pushing back on a claim should not be int…

>> You have indeed! I asked if there was any specific part of the post you responded to, which which you disagreed. Since you did not provide any though.... >I replied addressing that. If you are unsatisfied with my reply, please quote the text of the specific question you asked that you believe I did not answer. and I replied to that reply, concluding from it that you had no substantive material disagreements. If yo…

> and I replied to that reply, concluding from it that you had no substantive material disagreements. If you're unsatisfied with this conclusion, please reply with, for each disagreement, a quote of the claim, what you believe to be wrong about that claim, and your evidence for your assertion that the claim is wrong, and I'll evaluate your evidence to see whether it convincingly supports your doubts.

My initial grievance is here:

>> (someone) The jump from "bioresearch lab" which to bioweapons. Making it sound as if there was something to "admit" in Ukraine having same labs as everyone has. Then you try to confuse it with bioweapons, anthrax attacks in America and completely irrelevant treaties about bioweapons.

> (me) Who is it that's actually doing the confusing here? It's certainly possible that Greenwald is dog-whistling "bioresearch lab" into "bioweapons", but is he actually doing that, and to a large degree (mostly, etc)?

Here one human is accusing another human (or several), whom he doesn't know, of speaking deliberately deceivingly, making ~invalid associations between things, etc - a not abnormal interpretation of this might be something like "this guy doesn't know what he's talking about, he's trying to tell a tall tale, he might even be a conspiracy theorist".

At the very least, there's little acknowledgement I see about the complexities and uncertainty involved. This is but one of my overall complaints about culture war arguments, people play so fast and loose with the truth. If there's a post about computing on HN, attention to detail and emphasis on correctness is bountiful and uncontroversial. But in a culture war conversation, I proclaim that the inverse is true - and, I also think this abstract phenomenon is a big deal in the big scheme of things.

> Indeed, and, this is extremely important: isn't it possible that you only perceive yourself to be in disagreement with what the original poster said, but in reality, you are in total agreement, and have no complaints or criticisms whatsoever? Furthermore, isn't it possible that you only _perceived_ yourself asking the questions you think you asked, and in reality, you did not ask them? Is this a possibility?

Of course, why not.

But you brought up solipsism earlier:

>> Just take it from an outside observer, you could stand a little introspection to apply some of the solipsistic philosophical musings to yourself.

Perhaps you cannot (or will not) think in these terms without falling into a state of solipsism (or impotency due to indecision, another common complaint), but it's certainly not necessary. It is possible to address these ideas as they are, and take them seriously (as opposed to representing that they are silly, woo woo, bad faith, whatever). Perhaps it is not possible in the mainstream, in 2022, but it is possible.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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post #107

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Except centrism isn't a real position - by definition. It's solely defined by the sides in opposition. There's a real and important difference between holding positions which make you "roughly" at the center of apparent sides, and the apparent holding of positions because "moderate" or "centrist" is being held up as a virtue. And that last part is key: at the point where people are arguing that they are moderate, rat…

> Except centrism isn't a real position - by definition. > they're in fact [...] very definitely asserting a position by doing that. You seem to have talked yourself out of your own argument through the course of making it.

Status quo conservatism is definitively right wing.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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>> You have indeed! I asked if there was any specific part of the post you responded to, which which you disagreed. Since you did not provide any though.... >I replied addressing that. If you are unsatisfied with my reply, please quote the text of the specific question you asked that you believe I did not answer. and I replied to that reply, concluding from it that you had no substantive material disagreements. If yo…

> and I replied to that reply, concluding from it that you had no substantive material disagreements. If you're unsatisfied with this conclusion, please reply with, for each disagreement, a quote of the claim, what you believe to be wrong about that claim, and your evidence for your assertion that the claim is wrong, and I'll evaluate your evidence to see whether it convincingly supports your doubts. My initial griev…

>Here one human is accusing another human...

And one can presume you disagree with them.

The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence.

You see, raising questions does not add to any position in particular -- if you have questions, feel free to find the answers, and hopefully they will be ones which make your case more convincing than the case you are arguing against.

>Perhaps you cannot...

I think it is a bit primitive to make assumptions about what I can or cannot do. Perhaps I address these ideas better than you can comprehend, and you just _PERCEIVE_ it to be biting satire that cuts any hypothetical similarly-structured dissembling to the bone

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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> and I replied to that reply, concluding from it that you had no substantive material disagreements. If you're unsatisfied with this conclusion, please reply with, for each disagreement, a quote of the claim, what you believe to be wrong about that claim, and your evidence for your assertion that the claim is wrong, and I'll evaluate your evidence to see whether it convincingly supports your doubts. My initial griev…

>Here one human is accusing another human... And one can presume you disagree with them. The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence. You see, raising questions does not add to any position in particular -- if you have questions, feel free to find the answers, and ho…

> And one can presume you disagree with them.

One can presume whatever one wants. Whether one's presumption is correct is another matter.

> The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence.

Can you clarify in some detail what position / point of contention you have in mind (just so we're on the same page)?

> You see, raising questions does not add to any position in particular...

I'm not trying to add to one position or the other, I have made this clear several times. You may not believe me, but that is my claim - let's mark it as a discrete difference of opinion and add it to The List.

> ...if you have questions, feel free to find the answers, and hopefully they will be ones which make your case more convincing than the case you are arguing against.

I've asked several of you above, I was hoping the answers would come from you! But alas....

> I think it is a bit primitive to make assumptions about what I can or cannot do.

"Perhaps" denotes a possibility - it does not required the formation of a belief. Now if you wer to say I might be engaging in a little provocative rhetoric, well now that would be a different matter. :)

> Perhaps I address these ideas better than you can comprehend, and you just _PERCEIVE_ it to be biting satire that cuts any hypothetical similarly-structured dissembling to the bone

Perhaps you are right. Perhaps you are not. Perhaps there is a complex, mysterious, paradoxical blend among all of us. I wonder what is true!

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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>Here one human is accusing another human... And one can presume you disagree with them. The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence. You see, raising questions does not add to any position in particular -- if you have questions, feel free to find the answers, and ho…

> And one can presume you disagree with them. One can presume whatever one wants. Whether one's presumption is correct is another matter. > The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence. Can you clarify in some detail what position / point of contention you have in min…

>I've asked several of you above, I was hoping the answers would come from you!

Feel free to ask them of yourself, if they help you arrive at a case more convincing than the one you are arguing against. As judge of your two's dispute, my own inputs shouldn't be necessary for you to make your case convincingly. If it is, your case is bad.

>>The evidence supporting their position is convincing, you may now present your evidence to the contrary, and I'll determine whose position between the two of you is more tenable given the evidence.

>Can you clarify in some detail what position / point of contention you have in mind (just so we're on the same page)?

The points of contention you have with the original post are for you to clarify in some detail. If you have no point of contention with their post, IE you agree with it, then I guess there's no disagreement.

>"Perhaps" denotes a possibility - it does not required the formation of a belief

I don't recall arguing otherwise, so not sure what you're getting at here.

> I wonder what is true!

One heuristic is, whatever you think is true, even if multiple people speak to the contrary. It's not a great heuristic, but _some_people_ use it. Eye roll emoji.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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What's the difference between "bad faith communication" and just plain old trolling?

By strict definition it is bad faith because the troll's goal is agnostic to the position advertised and the only real intention is to provoke people.

However I think that like art, trolls can use a lie to tell the truth. My preferred example is James Randi (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Randi, see also the documentary An Honest Liar). You might say that his goal was not to provoke a reaction, but given the repeated humiliations of the conman he exposed I beg to differ.

Personally I like to tell the exact opposite of the truth that nobody knows or most people ignore but would make them change their mind. For instance, it is known vaccines are used to only prevent hospitalizations.

Re: The endgames of bad faith communication

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I thought this was a pretty good book despite the seeming brevity to it. Anyways to really expand for those who haven't read it, Dethmer talks about an internal mindset dial between judgementalness vs curiosity. There are other dials like victim vs agency, emotional acceptance vs denial, etc.

I appreciate you both bringing him up. I had forgotten about his work and may dig more into his book. I had learned of him from the Tim Ferriss podcast, perhaps this episode: https://tim.blog/2020/06/09/jim-dethmer-transcript/

Ah yes I remember that one. A few weeks later I believe one of his colleagues in Conscious Leadership Group goes on the show too and she brings up more details.
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