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> Depression is caused by laziness and anxiety by hopelessness. I wish this were true, but its not even close. I wonder how your kids will react when they move away, and you're not around to police their emotional expression. If they're like me, they will promptly collapse into paralysis and self-destruction. I strongly suggest that you frequently give your kids long stretches of time (months) to practice regulating…
At this age I am teaching emotional regulation on a daily basis. As for when they grow up, adults who cannot manage their emotions get fired or are sent to jail. It is critical to be slow to anger, quick to forgive, and work at building strong friendships.
Prozac 'no better than placebo' for treating children with depression, experts
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Speaking for myself, I took sertraline for years and it did wonders for my mental health. It didn't ruin my life or numb me, it gave me the ability to regulate my emotions when I previously struggled immensely with anger and crippling anxiety.
It’s possible for these drugs to be handed out too easily in some contexts and simultaneously be life-saving, effective treatments for those who genuinely need them. Suggesting they violate 'do no harm' ignores the massive harm caused by leaving severe mental health struggles untreated.
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I know several depressed people that exercise every day and live in a clean house.
That's unfortunate. Ask they why they are depressed and see if there is any way to fix it.
I have a very good support system in my life. If it was possible for a friend to come along and just fix it then I wouldn't have depression.
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Yes, us too. Beats us. Sure wasn't around our house, and we can't imagine any family/friends/TV/whatever he may have learned it from.
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No offense, but teaching your kids this kind of nonsense is borderline abusive. It's so far away from so many people's experiences, and is just plain wrong. I hope you can recognize how damaging this could be for your kids down the road.
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#345Hacker News really does attract a specific type of person...
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> Trying to help those people with talk therapy or exercise or companionship would be as futile as using those things to treat hepatitis or gangrene. I get what you want to say, but to nitpick the analogy: If the "treatment" for gangrene is amputation, then that's not really "fixing" anything. That's just the scorched earth strategy of destroying the afflicted along with the affliction. Like lobotomies. What do peopl…
>Like lobotomies. What do people think of them now? Lobotomy was in fact an effective treatment (albeit with extremely severe side-effects), but we now have much better and safer treatments available. The abandonment of lobotomy was fundamentally driven by the invention of effective antidepressants, antipsychotics and mood stabilisers. Neurosurgery is still offered to an extremely small proportion of patients sufferi…
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I wouldn't go that far, but there was a now-famous study (Princeton?) that showed that doing aerobic exercise for maybe 30 mins every day, about five days per week, was equally effective at alleviating depression symptoms.
There's one big problem with that - getting seriously depressed people to do 30 minutes of exercise (or anything else) five days a week. "Get more exercise" is excellent advice for someone who feels a bit down, but it's absolutely useless for someone who can barely summon up the strength to eat or brush their teeth.
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I know several depressed people that exercise every day and live in a clean house.
That's unfortunate. Ask they why they are depressed and see if there is any way to fix it.
And that's okay!
I would encourage you to look at the number of comments from different people who have a history of dealing with this kind of thing for a long time.
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#349I thought this was already known? I can’t recall exactly but there was some research pointing to SSRIs in general as not being particularly effective at all. They were just hyped a lot and became mainstream.
I wouldn't go that far, but there was a now-famous study (Princeton?) that showed that doing aerobic exercise for maybe 30 mins every day, about five days per week, was equally effective at alleviating depression symptoms.
I say this as someone who is extremely fit. I've worked out religiously since high school. While exercise is integral to me feeling somewhat normal and provides a short-term boost, that is just not how it works for everyone. Some of us have 'broken brains' that cardio can't fix.
Exercise manages my baseline, but sertraline is what helped me finally bridge the gap. It allowed me to regulate my emotions and anxiety in a way that no amount of exercise ever did. And the introspection from being on it helped me make lifelong changes.
To be honest, fearmongering from folks online is what stopped me from taking it sooner, but I wish I had. It was fairly life-changing.
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I agree 100% and it is an uphill battle requiring significant effort. That is where discipline is required. Exercising that discipline will bring positive results. There is nothing other than self stopping someone from cleaning instead of crying under a blanket.
"If you have executive dysfunction, just discipline through it" is definitely a take.