> An anecdote of one person with bad manners shouldn't be representative of the whole.
It is so incredibly widespread, it's not just "an anecdote of one person".
The entry-level courses at TU-Berlin where I studied had just been taken over by FP disciples when I started studying, and it was crazy. "Let me tell you about our Lord and Saviour Functional Programming, Hallelujah".
And of course the reality didn't come close to matching the advertising.
And it never does.
Another nice example was in a lecture by SPJ on parallel Haskell, where he says "This can only be done in a functional language.". Audience member: "We've been doing exactly this in HPC for decades. In FORTRAN". Instead of conceding or apologising for the gaffe, SPJ doubles down with something along the lines of "well, then what you are using is an FPL". Jeez. Oh, and when it comes to the results he reveals that the overhead is so high that you need 7-8 cores running full tilt to be equivalent to a single core C program. Jeez.
In general, there is also the widespread phenomenon I call "functional appropriation", where a similarity is noted between some aspect of FP and some other mechanism or paradigm or some such, and then the claim is made that this obviously means that the other mechanism/paradigm is just thinly veiled FP.
Newsflash: let me tell you about Turing machines. Or NAND gates...
For example FRP, "Functional Reactive Programming". Which is really just dataflow, and badly packaged dataflow at that. Or the React people's claim that the core concept or React is that the UI is a "pure function" of the model. Well, it turns out it is not. Not a pure function at all. And not really a function either. Just a mapping. And any UI had better be some sort of mapping of the model, or it's hard to see how it would qualify as a UI.
I could go on (and on, and on, and on...) but I'll stop now.