According to this article the highest paid worker in Silicon Valley, a product manager, earns $133k a year on average.
For comparison purposes, I suggest you take a look at US News Best Jobs, which contains a roundup of BLS data by region. Here's a sampling of some other salaries for the Silicon Valley area:
https://money.usnews.com/careers/best-jobs/rankings
The top paying market for software developers (the #1 job, apparently) is San Jose, at $133k a year median pay.
Physician Asst: $138k a year in Santa Rosa CA
Nurse Practitioner (#4): $158k/yr in San Francisco, CA
Registered nurse (#18): $138k/yr in San Francisco
Lawyer (#33): $193k/yr in San Jose (top market)
This is median, rather than average, and is a bit more recent than the $133k cited in the article. There are other factors of course, pay isn't the only thing that matters, stability, age discrimination, working environment, possibility of doing good. The median doesn't include the upper range for high talent (I think nursing salaries tend to be more compressed around the mean, whereas lawyer and programmers have longer tails).
But overall, the data doesn't really support the notion that programmers are especially well paid when compared to fields available to skilled and educated people, including in (perhaps especially in) Silicon Valley.